Me and my boyfriend of over 8 months have been fighting every day over stupid things. he says i'm being a *****. i probably am. he always says im choosing my friends before him and that he's sick of being number two. and i just feel like im doing everything wrong and i have too much going on in my life and i cant control it. i feel like this whole thing is my fault. he makes me feel like im such a bad girlfriend and i never have time for him. when i try to change plans with my friends to hang out with him he doesnt even wanna hang out anymore. what should i do to fix our relationship?
2007-06-06 14:38:40 · 10 answers · asked by Blondie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Steve. i guess i forgot to tell you that i make every effort i can to make plans with him when i can. i offer to cancel plans with friends or to move them to a different time and to hang out with him after my sports but he doesnt take it. i dont know why he cant see that im trying.
2007-06-06 14:57:05 · update #1
If he continues to degrade you for trying to work out your situation, it maybe time to leave him. He has no right to treat you like this, a good relationship is based on communication and trust, so if any problems with either consider moving on.
2007-06-06 14:47:59 · answer #1 · answered by Minot_1997 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a sincere effort to be with him more. Who likes feeling like their girl's #2? You'll always have friends, you can't say that about having a boyfriend, so why not try to see him more often? Let me let you in on how us guys do it. If we get a girlfriend, we will literally drop off the face of the earth as far as our dude friends would notice. Then after the relationship is over or the girlfriend allows some time away from her, then we will kick it with our friends again. Either way, we know what is most important.
2007-06-06 21:46:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the truth is that if either of you can't handle the relationship for whatever reason then maybe you should spend some time apart. Given relationships aren't all good times your gonna fight, but if you find yourself spending more time fixing the relationship than having fun in it then you might want to stay away from that. I'm not gonna say who is wrong and who is right but i will say that if you can't handle it your if he can't then end it at least long enough to appreciate the next relationship.
2007-06-06 22:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by jake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that it is time for a new boyfriend and boot this one out. If you two are not getting along and dealing with each other like civilized and rational people, then it is over. A sure sign the love is gone in the relationship is when you two fight all the time. It is best you end it and stop wasting each other's time.
2007-06-06 21:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hmm that sounds pretty needy in my books. Just cause your in a relationship doesn't mean you have to give up your personal freedom. Your not choosing your friends over him, he is trying to make you choose by his attitude. Tell him to suck it up...there's plenty of you to go around.
2007-06-06 21:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by Joseph 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the dude name Steve above has the best answer.
2007-06-06 21:54:48 · answer #6 · answered by DAIMAKU 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get out of it. girl, I put up with that for a year and a half. just say you think you two need a break. you deserve beter.
2007-06-06 21:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by TaNiBren007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him if he dose not like it that you have friends then he dose not like you at all and you dumb him.
2007-06-06 21:48:59 · answer #8 · answered by betty m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
2007-06-06 21:42:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him more sex and he'll be happy. Then you can see your friends.
2007-06-06 21:42:35 · answer #10 · answered by unit663 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋