why do a lot of asian males complain too much about asian girls with white guys are too common? even though i dont date a white guy, it still annoys me when i see them whine about it(probably another reason why so many asian girls go for the white guy)ive noticed a lot of questions here with "asian girls are traitors" "how can i get a white gf",etc. i remeber when i rejected this viet guy and he called me a whitewashed traitor(he didn't even know my bf is a mongol) i understand hating asian girls for exclusively dating non-asians and hating their own ethnicity(that's real shallow) but why are some of them being so bitter about it?
2007-06-06 14:31:12 · 23 answers · asked by stacy v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont know about all asian guys having small ones. i know a lot of them have small ones, my bf has a pretty nice size so i guess hes above average. but then again its how you use it that counts.
2007-06-06 14:37:54 · update #1
i'm glad im not the only one, jean. but you date white guys mostly, i only date black and mostly asian guys that have that have the "gangsta" image so long as they aren't posers or those "AZN" type.. and yet im still called a "traitor" or "whitewashed sellout"(weird isnt it how they call me whitewashed when ive never dated a white guy) i guess you can call me "blackwashed" ;)
2007-06-07 16:43:39 · update #2
i don't think my dad would help much, he wasn't rejected by my mom and probably all asians weren't dating/marrying outside their race back then
2007-06-14 12:43:48 · update #3
Ha! Tell me about it! Everywhere I go, I hear "tratior" and "sellout". I even heard some guy saying something like "pseudo asian girl". If no one else agrees with you, I most definitely do! Those guys just need to get a life!
2007-06-07 16:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
They may be upset because they feel rejected without even meeting them. I know some white guys get upset over black men dating white women.
I particularly thought that Vietnamese man was a little rude. whitewashed traitor? Ouch. Don't let all of these negative comments get to you and just be with other positive Asian males (if thats your preference).
2007-06-06 14:35:36 · answer #2 · answered by Dunkel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's because they feel that all the women, both Asian and white are dating white guys and excluding Asian guys. If you felt excluded you'd be whining too.
Of course that's how they've perceived the situation, when in reality they're just insecure.
2007-06-14 03:42:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you seen the movie "Yellow Fever" on YouTube by WongFu Productions? If not, look it up. The lead, Philip is fiiine. Anyway,all men are whiners...ALL of them. They think they should have everything. I understand, however, how Asian guys feel. Their whine is similar to black women's whine about how black men love NOTHING more than a white woman. Both of our premises for whining are not borne out by the statistics: the majority of Asian women marry Asian men and the majority of black men who get married marry black women. But in both cases, the media seems to LOOVEE the image of Asian women with white men and black men with white women. Commercials/ magazine ads...white men, white women, Asian women and black men. That don't match. That's why they're whining. Like black women, Asian men are being shoved aside in the American psyche as not "male" or "not masculine" in the same way that black women are seen as "unfeminine" (unless they have a 10 million dollar blonde weave). Black men buy into this and consider white women the pinnacle of femininity and the suitable companion for a successful man....and Asian women, looking for success, buy that white men are the ideal. Check this website...Asian girls asking why white boys don't ask them out (why do they want white boys to ask them out? Why is that a dilemma?)....whine, whine. (I think also some Asian women don't want to be with a guy who will attempt to treat them the way their fathers treat their mothers...because they don't want to go to jail for killing him...but that's another response..)
2007-06-06 14:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by yp_plum_new_york 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i go to a nearly all Asian school, and I don't see asian guys whining about Asian girls dating white guys. though i have seen a lot of questions like you mentioned on here.
2007-06-06 14:34:48 · answer #5 · answered by salivate16 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ehhh because asians that are born here including me try to act close to their roots exlcuding me. I just live with it but ive met others who are like that sorry but tahts just how the world is =/ So they want to be like "pure" asian and etc. hard to go intot detail sorry
2007-06-06 14:34:30 · answer #6 · answered by alex k 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you're referring to asian americans. I know asians in Asia hardly whine. Americans are the expert at whining!
2007-06-07 06:09:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Asian guys whine LOL.
"Don't criticize what you can't understand for the times they are a changing"
2007-06-13 03:49:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to youtube and type in "yellow fever".. Very funny video that is relevant to your question.
2007-06-10 17:11:39 · answer #9 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kinda sounds to me like your whineing...you asked
2007-06-14 09:01:02 · answer #10 · answered by Jezmanrulz-PWC-WRW 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋