well, my boyfriend and I were talking on the phone like a week or so ago, and it was the night after we had a sleepover and did ****. and we were just like talking about it. and his dad was listening to the conversation. his dad beats him and **** and so since he knew he decided to be an asshole and threten my boyfriend he would tell my mom this, and she would kill me. whatt should i do? like should i tell her myself?
2007-06-06 14:29:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nah we didnt have sex we did stuff. and we werent talking like heavy of it we were like making jokes of it kinda in a way. and his dads excuse for hearing it was he was telling my boyfriend to go to bed, eventough it was only like 9, and his dad didnt say anything the whole time, he just hungup.
2007-06-06 14:41:35 · update #1
Awww, doesn't it suck to be too immature to do grown up things? You did the crime, now do the time.
2007-06-06 14:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like his dad has nothing better to do. I could see if it was your dad, but most dads r pretty cool about private coversations. No harm. His dad i looking for a reason to mistreat him. I hope ya'll r at less 15yrs old too. I would tell your mom. She will be alarmed more at the fact that this man is a controll freak. She knows your human and that no one is perfect. She will be pissed that this man is trying to use this against y 2. She'll take care of him. Good luck.
2007-06-14 20:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like a TOTAL asshole, and he is probably just bluffing. Plus, your mom would probably believe you over a jerk like him.
If you want to be honest, then maybe you should tell her. Just give it some time first, this guy will probably get over it.
When I told my mom I had sex... well, a year and a half later, I'm still not allowed to talk to him.
2007-06-06 21:35:42 · answer #3 · answered by Kate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you Mom, she would understand. You two would probably have a long talk about sex, but you have resolved the situation of someone blowing the whole thing up
2007-06-13 19:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by teriwilburn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely tell your mom before your boyfriends dad can. it might help to show responsibility, which would greatly improve her reaction. A parents main fear about their child having premarital sex is that they wouldnt act responsibly about it and make mistakes, ending up either pregnant or with an std. so tell your mom, explain the situation to her, and hope that she takes it well. and remember to try to stay calm and very mature when you tell her, since it is such a mature subject.
2007-06-06 21:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u two should abstain from talking about doing on the phone or maybe wait 4 each other when u guys r 18 yrs old.
2007-06-06 21:38:01 · answer #6 · answered by Chocolate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you all are but i really think the father shouldn't be listen to the conversation also I think you should tell your mom before he does.
2007-06-06 21:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by Erma S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would think twide about this guy, it is obvious he doesn't respect you or the guy you are seeing at present. If he did respect you, he wouldn't be groping you, he would stand on the side and wait until you did break up with your present boyfriend and then he would approach you.
2007-06-14 03:38:15 · answer #8 · answered by Brian (Bill) M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell her the hole story including the part with his dad. And if she gets mad she will fell like she trust b/c you told her, and the fact that your bf's dad beats him she wont git mad at you she will fill sorry for him.
2007-06-13 18:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a ******* asshole! Tell her yourself and then tell her what he did. He has no right to be doing that ****.
2007-06-14 18:58:30 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋