I have told him twice to stop it. My child is 11 has ADD and anxiety problems. Give me something to give to him or something that tells him how terrible it is. He thinks he is going to toughen him up that way.
2007-06-06 12:43:02 · 14 answers · asked by heather c 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I am not married to his father. Why do men think that it is fine to call their children these names, as all the answers that come from them seem to think it is ok to call names?!!
2007-06-06 13:33:04 · update #1
My son is seeing a psychiatrist for ADD.
2007-06-06 13:33:53 · update #2
I am married to a different man who can show my son "how to be a man". He never calls him names. I guess being a man is to call names to make your sons macho?
2007-06-06 13:35:09 · update #3
I let him go when he wants too. We do have the typical every other weekend and two weeks out of the summer legal thing. I want my son to be with his father but not like this and if it continues will be seeking a lawyer to stop it. I need hard copy (websites I can print, info) to give to him to let him know how serious I am about it.
2007-06-06 13:53:15 · update #4
Your husbands behavior is probably the cause of your son's anxiety.
Tell him that it's smarter to teach their children respect...and not belittle them and try to make them feel small.
Some people would call that verbal abuse.
Maybe you want to read up on some child development and behavioral psychology and then show him those. Medical research to support your concerns.
******I don't think you even need to show him any research "to show him that you're serious"...You just need to tell him that you're serious and follow through.
The behavior is unacceptable. If he isn't a fit parent...he doesn't deserve partial custody or visitation...and you can take him to court for it...you don't need anything from the internet for that!
Tell him flat out...If I see you treat my son like that again...and if you call him names again, I'm taking you to court. STOP NOW. ...If he continues...FOLLOW THROUGH and take him to court.
2007-06-06 12:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost I have 2 children on is 11 and the other is 7. My 7 year old is mixed with ADD and has horrible HORRIBLE issues with people because of his father doing that to him. My son also has another brother that his father had prior to our horrible relationship. He is 17 now He just came home from prison! His father did the same thing to him as he did to my son. Your husband is starting the path to an emotional support student!! That is definitley not the approach to take with a child this is verbal abuse as my sons father would tell you but he is now incarcerated for doing so!!! I suiggest that he stops are you are going to have more problems than you can ever imagine!!!
2016-03-13 06:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-13 20:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men do not think it's OK to insult anyone much less their own son. This is cowardly and disgusting it will in NO way help your son, only contribute to lowering his self esteem and self worth. A child needs parents to build him/her up, doing the opposite is EXTREMLEY determental.
2007-06-06 13:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by kleb317 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
What your fathers son is doing is called VERBAL ABUSE and is very serious. I would not take your son back there and I would get a lawyer and let them know what is up. Your fathers dad may have visitation rights but... they may have to be supervised. Good Luck.
2007-06-06 14:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by Operator 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Does he have legal visitation or did you both just come to an agreement about it. See, to me that would be abuse especially if it really hurts him so if he wont listen to you, make sure you drag him back to court or at least threaten to so this boy can relax a bit
Where do you live? Canadian and States law and websites differ
2007-06-06 13:50:21 · answer #6 · answered by debcando2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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that is literally verbal abuse. You need to sit down with your sons dad and tell him so. He could really do some damage to your son, and more than likely already has. Age 11 is very fragile when it comes to parents approval, and if his dad is just demeaning him like that, it could seriously scar him for life.
2016-04-01 03:27:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm interested in this as well
2016-07-29 07:08:07 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd advise family counseling. What the father is doing is called verbal abuse, and it is harming your son.
2007-06-06 13:30:16 · answer #9 · answered by stormsinger1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your son will grow up to be very insecure!!! and very insecure men are abusive to their wives! they are also rapest and other bad things. its not going to toughen him up at all! it will turn him into a man that you will weep night after night over because he takes his insecurties and child hood anger out on others. your husband is creating a future of pain for your grandkids and daughter in law
2007-06-08 21:34:51 · answer #10 · answered by itwillbeok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋