please help!
2007-06-06 10:28:59 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why break up with her in the first place??
If you did then go back on your knees and see if she'll have you.
2007-06-06 10:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by ☆ Heavenly ☆ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1) an important thing to remember is, you are a good match if you both become better people from your relationship. For ex. if you become more compassionate or change some negative views on something trivial. This should go for both of you. I always thought that a relationship is made in heaven if you both become even better than you were before. If you become worse, then thats what your future will hold for you. You will not be happier than what you have right then + there. Good relationships bring out the best in you. : )
2) think over why you wanted to break up with her. List all the reasons then discuss with her how you both can make changes. Changes dont just happen with one person, it goes for the couple themselves. Has she told you how she feels about you ? If she has, then be honest with her, tell her how you feel ?
3) are you thinking of a permanent relationship with her ?
are you both ready for commitment ?
4) Be ready for making sacrifices, thats what love is all about. Putting the other ahead of you.
Love + good relationships are for life, they take constant working at, just like a job. : ) good luck with the g/f
2007-06-06 10:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by Colleen R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would say, " (name), I made a huge mistake when I decided to break your heart. I was being stupid and selfish. I'm truly sorry and it hasn't been the same knowing that I don't have you to kiss and to touch. I love you so much and I would be very truly happy if you would accept my apology and talk about this with me." Don't ask her back on the spot, take a chance to talk to her about why you did it and make her feel comfortable. Remember, this isn't like a guaranteed product. No money back, so don't be shocked if it doesn't work.
2007-06-06 10:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by Me nutrit Me destruit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one thing you should make sure that you really truely do want her back! You have to be honest with yourself and realise why did you break up with her in the first place. Just be honest with her and how you feel. Dont lie to her. Just take is slow and explain that you really do want her back and tell her what you miss. Talk to her, communication is #1. I hope this helps.
2007-06-06 10:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by grebcrystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only tell her something like this if you are sure you want to break up if not do not go there!
tell her that you really like her but that you are young (if you are) and that you just want to see what is out there bc you are just now getting to experiance life and if our paths come back together then we are meant to be but if not that you are sorry that the situation came to this but this is what you feel you have to do.
WHAT TO SAY TO TRY TO GET HER BACK
just tell her that you missed her and that you made a mistake of breaking up with her and that when you made that desion to break up with her that you did not realize what you had and now you do and that you are truely sorry for what you had done bc you know that you really hurt you (her) and if she would ask her to go out with you again tell her you know that you have to earn her trust back and that you have to take things slow but you are willing to do anything to get her back and make up for the mistake that you had made.
2007-06-06 10:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um just say listen I regret breaking up with you I figured out that you are what completes me in life is there any way to get back together with you? I miss being with you.
2007-06-06 10:31:56 · answer #6 · answered by iLoVeNaThAn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that, got a tee shirt. When my wife and I were dating, we broke up many times. Each time it was because I was attracted to another girl. Each time we started back together, I had to almost crawl back to her, admitting what an idiot I had been for breaking up. She really must have liked me, because she kept accepting my lame apologies. And today we are married. So, it worked for me. Good luck to you.
2007-06-06 10:34:58 · answer #7 · answered by loufedalis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was an idiot, forgive me, can we try again?
I don't know that you'll get her back, that's up to her. In the future, don't make decisions like that until you're a bit more sure about how you'll feel afterward. Some things discarded cannot be re-obtained.
2007-06-06 10:31:46 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. My best friend Joey had a crush on this girl Alexis. What he did, was her was persistant, and he remined her of all the good times they had together. Always keep a positive attitude, and remember, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
Best of Luck!
Erica
2007-06-06 10:32:25 · answer #9 · answered by ayo, ERICAA! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I'm a jerk and I didnt mean it. Can you find it in your heart to forgive me for being and *** and lets get back together. We can have break up sex and pretend it didnt happen.
2007-06-06 10:32:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anne M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋