evertime I'm out some where by myself while my fiance is at ork guys are always trying to get at me and talk to me ,even though i have this huge rock on my finger and they see it,but they still try to talk to me. how do I let them know I'm not interested in them sould I be a total b*tch about it ?or sould I just ignore them like I've been doing?
2007-06-06 08:59:28 · 38 answers · asked by Aubrie F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just ignore them. Some guys like the thrill of taking a girl from someone else - but to me, it's immature and stupid. Don't even bother talking to them because right when you say "I'm seeing someone else", their response is going to be "What's that got to do with me?" jerks like that stay single until they're 40.
2007-06-06 09:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the comments or just tell them you are not interested. There's no need to be rude. These days women wear large diamond rings to show independence and you know the morality rate of people these days is zero. Who's knows if you are actually faithful, you won't know until you ask
2007-06-14 06:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by teriwilburn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore them. i think guys like a challenge, and what bigger challenge than an engaged or married woman right? Maybe they think that they can have a fling with a married or engaged woman and not need to commit to her, which is what a lot of men out there want, you know? as long as you know you are not that type of woman, just brush these men off, i bet your fiance is very flattered by the male attention you receive, and happy that he got you for himself!
2007-06-06 09:03:15 · answer #3 · answered by Panda 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Congrats! on your engagement n for being a pretty gal. Anyway the best thing is to ignore. Or keep talking bout your fiance in their faces, or call your fiance right away and have him talk to these idiots. hahaha..n of course becareful when you go out own your own.
2007-06-14 07:24:36 · answer #4 · answered by marynmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A nice but simple "I'm very happily engaged to a wonderful man but thank you" Then turn away and continue what you were doing. If he persist, ignore him. He will stop and leave well enough alone. After all, you didn't initially ignore him, you were nice but you send a message that you are serious.
2007-06-14 06:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by DooWopKid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it as a complement. I dont care if guys hit on my wife, in fact I expect it. She is gorgeous. Also my wife expects other women to be attracted to me. You fiance shouldn't have a problem with this at all. Trust should be the basis of all relationships and jealousy is a sign of insecurity and weakness.
2007-06-06 09:04:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well being a b*tch about it might get you into trouble depending on the person, so you're better off just ignoring them!! = D
2007-06-06 09:03:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't take it too personal. They might just want to be friends, and if they still don't get it, ignore them and keep doing whatever you're doing. This is also challenging you how much you love your fiance, too.
2007-06-06 09:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by let_it_rain 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all u have to figure out why r they try to get at u
1- maybe becuz u r good personality and they and soul and they like talking to u
2- may ur looks and moves give them any sign that maybe u dont mean it but it just happen
so u have to search in ur self 1st
then yes u shall ignore them
2007-06-07 17:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by quietmoon 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore them. For some, someone who appears to be "taken" is even more desirable...I've never understood why. When I see a ring, to me that's an "off limits" sign.
2007-06-06 09:04:15 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋