How do you know they are really in love with you? What are the signs?
2007-06-06 08:58:45 · 14 answers · asked by Randi-Pooh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Come on ppl help me out. I need to know if the woman im with is really in love with me. I believe she is but there is just something there saying shes not and i need to know b/c our relationship gets anymore serious.
2007-06-08 09:06:23 · update #1
First, there are no particular signs. It is different for each couple.
How long have you been together? If it's only been a short time, say 6 months or less, you may not get the answer you are looking for. For some people, that is just not enough time to know if they are really in love with you.
Look at the little, positive things. Do they outweigh the negative? If so, there is love there, if not love, a step or 2 leading up to love.
I don't know you so please don't take offense to what I'm about to say. Is it possible you are "reading" too much of your relationship than what is actually there?
Take your time. Don't "TEST" your loved one. That will backfire.
If it is not love, enjoy each other's company and let the relationship take it's course. You may not get the outcome you want, but, if you pay attention, you will learn something.
I ALWAYS try to learn something form my experiences, be it relationships or other experiences. If I come out having learned something, than it was worth while experience.
Hope this helps.
2007-06-13 09:48:26 · answer #1 · answered by elewishs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a question that no one can answer but your female friend. We are not her, nor do we know how she feels or how much she feels about you, nor do we know what type of person she is, so we may decide what type of actions she would show when she loves someone. You might wanna ask her why she loves you, or how does she know she's in love with you. Just be prepared if she asks the same question.
2007-06-14 15:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by paris h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was in a car accident and was bed ridden for the rest of my life what would you do?
Of course you would never want anyone to wait there entire life just to help you and never have a true love life but this question will help you weed out some things. Try it. See what the response is.
2007-06-06 16:06:25 · answer #3 · answered by Axcelsior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes there is not question you can ask, it might be all in their actions. If they care about your feelings, your well being, and are kind, considerate of you, look out for your best interests, go out of their way to show they care, protect you. These are signs that they love you. If you aren't seeing any of the above then you can ask them what makes them attracted to you or love you
2007-06-14 14:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can just look into my wifes eyes and tell, I'm truely a lucky guy.
2007-06-14 15:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by Jezmanrulz-PWC-WRW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already feel this way-there is something wrong. Use your instincts, they are more often than not the right way to go. Have faith in yourself and don't settle :)
2007-06-14 15:02:31 · answer #6 · answered by Erin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got an engadgement ring ... That was the way I was told I was loved ..
Just tell her how you feel if she doesn't respond you know don't you?
2007-06-14 09:17:27 · answer #7 · answered by Rhyannonn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a feeling that she dose not love you, then pay
attention to your feeling because something is causing
you to feel that way.
2007-06-14 11:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by candle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not for the words, but with the acts
2007-06-14 04:05:33 · answer #9 · answered by Diógenes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him or her that do he or her trust god and love god if his/her answer is in positive than u can trust him or her otherwise he or she may telling lie
2007-06-14 01:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by loving_human 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋