My friend was critizizing me for going out with this guy.She also was saying mean stuff about him so ovulsly she dosn't like him.After we broke up i heard that she was now going out with him! Both of them are making stuff up about me and it's pissin me off!Now I look like the bad girl.I'm not jelous of them but is this just wrong? I'm confused?
2007-06-06 08:53:31 · 40 answers · asked by browneyedchick 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey this girl was obviously not your friend and she was obviously slating this boy so you would split with him.
Therefore, now you know what kind of a person she is, yo've found that these two individuals are two peas in a pod and utterly made for each other. Its certainly not your loss!
As they're making rubbish up about you though, you do have to take some form of action. Make it clear to this girl that she can't be that special as she has to settle for her friend's cast-off boyfriends and that she's got what she wants, get out of your life. Ultimately though, you're too good for these people and all they're doing is showing themselves as being very petty, childish and are too young to even be thinking of being an item. If I were you, I'd be glad to be rid of both of them-Good riddance to bad rubbish!
2007-06-13 12:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by Loulla 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong and she is not a friend. A real friend would never criticize someone you are interested in because everyone likes different things. I suspect she was jealous of your relationship with him from the start and when you two broke up she saw an opportunity to win him over. Talking bad about you and putting you down is their way of getting you out of the picture. Get some new friends.
2007-06-14 05:15:28 · answer #2 · answered by champion28601 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off if that was a real friend she would have had been happy for you and if she was a true friend she would have not went with him after yall broke up so she wasn't your true friend from the start i don't like think you were wrong she was wrong and he is wrong girl let me tell you something don't be friends with her know more and you will find you good trueful boyfriend do what you go to do and forget about them
2007-06-14 05:17:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write them both off and keep a cool head. In the long run they will both get what they deserve and you'll come out looking like the good guy.
2007-06-14 05:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She played u bad but u know what just to teach them both lesson start going out with someone much better and show them that they are the sorry losers and not u...Play the game don't get played
2007-06-06 08:58:31 · answer #5 · answered by kajal c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're definitely not confused. It's disgusting. The best thing to do is not to respond to anything regarding you from them. You will get only two things if you play wif the pigs
1) you will get dirty
2) the pigs will have a great time
2007-06-14 07:17:07 · answer #6 · answered by marynmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was just criticizing you because she wanted him.And don't worry there will be other guys.And if she was a real friend she would consult you before she went out with any of your ex-boyfriends.And don't make and nasty rumors about her either because that would just make you as bad as her.You rock girl, stay cool!
2007-06-14 06:50:45 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is sooo not ur friend, they probably did a lil something behind ur back and he probably told her to piss off cuz he was w/ u. thats why she was saying all those bad things about him. now they're together. whoop-dee-friggin-doo! those bia bia's deserve each other! the rumors and such are probably hurting ur rep and ur feelings right? u just have to act like it doesn't bother u, and if no one buys it then just beat her a**! sometimes u DO have to resort to violence, it'll make u feel better, and i bet no one else will spread rumors or date ur ex after that.
2007-06-14 06:27:12 · answer #8 · answered by ider_angel2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is very wrong. she obviously was just trying to say them things so you wouldn't think anything was up. definitely she was not a good friend. they were both probably doing something behind your back. but never wanted you to suspect anything. dont' even pay attention to what they say. just move on with your life you can do a lot better.
2007-06-06 08:59:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, it's wrong just be the bigger person and shrug it off like its nothing. She obviously isn't that great of a friend in the first place or she would have never dated your ex....I always thought that there was a silent rule.."Never date your friend's ex" at least in my group there is!!!!!!!
2007-06-06 08:58:55 · answer #10 · answered by ASHES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋