Sorry if that sounds terrible but it is.
He is a professional in the medical world, and 40 years of age, and generally a good guy not because he's my brother but just that's the way he is brought up with morals, respect, from mom and dad.
NOW, the big thing is he goes with whores, I mean any women that hangs out at bars, is easy, and he spends the night over his place, or he goes to hers. They are women I would be ashamed to be associated with or even to be seen because my family was not raised that way............. Your thoughts, on how we can make him see the light?
2007-06-06 08:25:49 · 15 answers · asked by * 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
He already has a child that we take care of from a woman, that frequented bars, that was promiscuous and still dates other men.
Note: Don't judge, because we have to take care of his kid.
2007-06-06 08:33:37 · update #1
He already has a child that we take care of from a woman, that frequented bars, that was promiscuous and still dates other men.
Note: Don't judge, because we have to take care of his kid.
2007-06-06 08:35:00 · update #2
What light? It doesn't look like he's doing anything wrong.
Ah, but your brother isn't living according to YOUR sense of right and wrong. Well, how does that affect you? The most you can or should do is remind him that having sex with a lot of women is risky because of disease. If he's willing to accept the risk, it's not really up to you to say he shouldn't do it.
You are not your brother's keeper. Let him live his own life.
2007-06-06 08:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by nondescript 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I don't know that you can really make anyone see the light. The best thing you can do is pray for him, live your life with the values and morals that you were raised with, voice your concerns with him,but don't argue with him about it because that doesn't help anything.
2007-06-06 15:42:48 · answer #2 · answered by J'net 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he going through a midlife crisis! Have you talked to him about this?
Just remind him to be careful, He might get something Ajax won't wash off!
2007-06-06 15:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by PSYCHO DAISY MAE 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time I would say mind your own business, but he is your brother, and you must love him or you wouldn't be concerned. I would sit him down somewhere when it's just you two and tell him calmly and rationally how you feel. Don't accuse, don't raise your voice. Good luck!~
2007-06-06 15:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by MamaMia 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would say that he is the errr... person of ill repute... not the women. He is the one who consistently sleeps around. How do you know for CERTAIN that these women also sleep around just as much as he does?
2007-06-06 15:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by Iamnotarobot (former believer) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's simply left you in the dark, with the rest of the family. How you are raised doesn't mean a whit.
2007-06-06 15:29:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can only say that if it makes him happy, then who are you or anyone to judge him for it. When he is ready for a relationship he will know, it's his life, seems like he's doing okay so far.
2007-06-06 15:31:48 · answer #7 · answered by Patrick M 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would start by not calling the girl he is with a whore. It may not be the best conversation starter. God bless you.
2007-06-06 15:29:06 · answer #8 · answered by TripleTattoo™ 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Pray over him. It cures everything - from the gay curse to high gas prices! Get over it and let him live his own life. Or are you just jealous that he's getting laid and you're not?
2007-06-06 15:31:13 · answer #9 · answered by dragonfirez2 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Is thou thy brother's keeper?
2007-06-06 15:30:56 · answer #10 · answered by hermit 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋