I was having a party one night and passed out. My boyfriend and my friend were also drinking and she followed him in the other room and told him to f**k her. He stuck it in for like 3 seconds and then pulled out. I found out 4 months later and broke up with him. He said that he wanted to tell me and didn't know how. I knew something was odd between them because he kept saying he hated her but wouldn't tell me why. She's no longer my friend. Right now we're just friends and he says he wants to chnage. We were supposed to get married and move in together. Should I just let him go and move on or try to work things out?
2007-06-06 08:11:14 · 15 answers · asked by Mallard 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first off, your old friend sounds like a total b****, good thing you arent friends anymore.
I think in a situation like this, you honestly need to look to no one else except your self. do you still love him? do you really want to marry him? do you trust him? - all of these need yes's or no's, you cant have any maybes
once your sure of how you feel, it will be a lot easier
good luck and im sorry about your situation, it seriously sucks!
xoxoxoox
2007-06-06 08:17:14 · answer #1 · answered by jesslumber 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You would not have posted this question if you wanted to give him a second chance. You have been good to each other for 6 years and when this happened, he was drunk. If you forgive him this once, you might turn out to be his angel. The next time he cheats on you, then DUMP HIM. Go ahead and forgive him. Do not make him more miserable. it will make you feel good and rewarded. Chuck out and stay away from such girl friends and such parties. Give some more time before you get into marriage.
Good Luck,
A.R
2007-06-06 08:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by A R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give him one chance. There is nothing to loos. He said that he hate her then why do you worry about it. You should not be asking this question to us but you should ask your self that do you still have felling for him? Do you think about him at lease once a month or so? I know you will say they why did he cheat on you? but you know that he was drunk and did not realized what he is doing. I think that the only reason he did not told you about this is maybe because he don't want to loos you. He is still trying to be with you. I think you should think about this.
2007-06-06 08:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by INDI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To question it means you don't trust him! I tried to get back with my boyfriend that cheated on me but just the thought of him with another woman disgusted me. I couldn't allow myself to continue to distrust him and keep throwing his mistake into every argument.
If you try to work it out, this girlfriend of yours needs to stay out of the picture. It will take time because that trust needs to be regained. I say give it 3 months. If it's still not working out, move on. Believe it or not, there are men out there who do not cheat!
2007-06-06 08:19:37 · answer #4 · answered by keli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did u get rid of the gurl as ur friend and u still are with the guy,it takes two i slept wit my best best best friends boyfriend when i wuz drunk she understood i saw her pain and i would never do it again and were are still tight and always together if i were you i would call ur friend and say sorry for pushing her out of her life unless she n u wernt alll that close but if u can tell that he is trully sorry then give him another chance 2 strikes and he is out
2007-06-06 08:17:54 · answer #5 · answered by gangsta*gurlie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it have to be leave him or marry him, I mean really, wait it out, if you don't know what to do, the worst thing would be to get married!
2007-06-06 08:20:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear , Just move on and find a friend and man worthy of your love !
2007-06-06 08:20:56 · answer #7 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL Let him go --don't be a fool.
Do you really think a drunk guy stuck it in, counted to 3 seconds, and stopped LOLOL LMAO
2007-06-06 08:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need two new friends, as You have not a friend or a boy friend if they treat you like this so good luck.
2007-06-06 08:15:01 · answer #9 · answered by Gypsy Gal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You and your boyfriend are nasty and so gross. What are you doing having sex with him if you two are just "friends".
GET A LIFE!!
2007-06-06 08:20:21 · answer #10 · answered by blazinleti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋