I need help with my mom, we dont get on well.?

Answer 1

Whose fault is that. There has to be give and take in any relationship.

Answer 2

Well in what way do you not get on?? Do you argue? Ignore each other. It would have been a bit helpful if you would have given more information in your question. But anyway. Try and do things that your mother appreciates. Such as offering to cook meals, or do some house work chores. That might be a start. Try and talk to her. Sit down with her and have a long chat. Just you and your mum. Try and be with her as much as you can. Say when she goes shopping offer to come and help her.

Answer 3

Mother and daughter who dont get on are obviously very alike! Try doing some things that you both enjoy doing! Talk about things you have in common! A mother is supposed to be your best friend! Good Luck

Answer 4

Who doesn't get along with their mother? I had never gotten along with my mother since the day I was born. All she has ever done is smother me, and talk about me to her so-called friends that I hate so much. In other words, whenever we get into an argument, it always involves either people from my childhood or show business people who are not African-American. Furthermore, I'm not allowed to have a normal life, let alone a normal relationship.

No one in the world knows what it's like to have a monster-in-law for a mother. You try to be nice to them, and it all blows up in your face.

That is why I don't want anyone, including Tobey Maguire and his daughter, Ruby, to get involved with me. With the family I have, I will most definitely get them hurt or worse.

Answer 5

I bet she love you very much and wants to be friends with you as well as being your mum. Its not easy but try letting her into your life a bit more try talking about things about her life you know when she was you age if you show an interest in her she will show more interst in you. I did get on that well with my mum but now we a firm friends it took a while though. good luck

Answer 6

I wish i was in your shoes and still had my mum with me, but i dont, she died of lung cancer in January of this year and I'd give anything to have her back.
You only get one mum in this life time, so please try and build bridges with her, there are so many things i want to tell my mum, i'd love to hear her laugh again, sit down and have a cup of tea with her, cuddle up on the sofa with her, i Will never ever get to do any of these things again, you however have the chance to, grab that chance with both hands, life's to short and precious to be falling out with one of the most important people you will ever have in your life!

Answer 7

I hate the sight of my mother. I wouldn't p i s s on the old cow even if she was on fire.
A more treacherous, scheming, manipulating, lying c*nt would be impossible to meet.
I have had no contact with her for 11 years and they have been the best 11 years of my life.
If you don't get on with her, fine, it happens. It is your life and if she makes you miserable, don't see her.

Answer 8

This is really not enough of a question to think about an answer to help you. Please send a more full question. I have had experience of a daughter who did not get on her with mum and have two grown up daughters myself who had moments when they were teenagers when they told me they didn't like me. It passed though, and now we are the best of friends.

Answer 9

try spending some time together going shopping.a meal or cinema or something.make her see that you appriciate her buy her a card or flowers just to show what you think of her.i used to be like this with my mum a bit of quality time together sorted it out.good luck.x

Answer 10

Please for your own sake try and keep on friendly terms with her. I went through a bad patch with my mom when she interfered in my relationship with my husband. I didn't see her for 4 years and then she died - I wish I hadn't been so stubborn and I would give anything to see her now or even talk to her but I can't.

Answer 11

Just remember that she is the only one you have and that she truly won't be around . Just treat each day with her like it s the last one and you will appreciate her more.