Well the thing is my boyfriend is really into this whole religion thing with this whole israelite thing. i mean he's my heart and everything and i do listen when he speak the "word of god" but i mean everyday he wants me to read the bible or you know if i don't he wont speak to me but the thing is he can have more than one wife so he says i keep asking him to prove it to me but for somereason he cant so i want to know where in the bible does it say a man can have more than one wife in this century because i mean i disagree with him all the time but he always makes me feel bad by saying im not a virtuous woman and also he hates white people. he says israelites are gonna be the only ones here when god comes back and thy're gonna kill all the white people infront of god. i mean dayum im catholic and i never heard of that. and i hate that he's like this he also tells me i need to accept his other woman beccause shes my "sister" what do i do?
2007-06-06 07:25:09 · 14 answers · asked by baby bop 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
the bible is hundreds of pages long, if i'm allowed to jump around and pull a sentence from here and a paragraph from there i can convince you that the bible says women can have 2 husbands... these ppl are completely full of it... um yeah, so convenient the bible says everything that i believe and want to be true, what a coincidence!!
u need to ask yourself one question and one question only:
"am i a stupid woman?"
act according to your answer... and u say he is your heart?!?! u know, i won't disparage this guy, cause i feel he has good reason to be hate filled on a lot of levels... but at the end of the day, hurt as he may be and needing this extreme religious viewpoint o hold onto, he is expecting you to pay for his pain...
i mean lets face it, 2 wives would be rathwer luxurious, kind of life like the slave masters lived-- on a deep level this guy wants to be what oppressed him and he is taking it out on you...
is it your fault?? why on earth shgould u have to suffer... be realistic... if u love this guy and have to share him with your 'sister' u will be in pain for your whole life-- your kids will be ashamed of their mother, etc... do u believe this is what god wants for you?? that is his plan?
pure selfishness, but from someone not strong enought to just say "hey, this is what i want" he has to say "hey, this is what GOD wants for me... 2 wives, I mean if that's what GOD REALLY wants... how can i refuse??"
good luck cousin
2007-06-06 08:16:30 · answer #1 · answered by mongoose11225 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-10 16:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if you are a real catholic, you can't be married to anyone else that's a catholic.
Second, this guy sounds crazy and you need to check who you are and why you're with this guy.
Third. Gen 2:24 "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh."
It is wrong to have wives. Yes, there are men in the OT that had extra wives, but that was the culture then to help women, and God still didn't agree with it.
2007-06-06 07:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by yaabro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN... as fast and as far as you can from that person... He is not a good person in any way... He has nothing to to with God or any thing of God... that person is mentaly off balance... you are in danger being involved with any like that.... I would also recomend that you free yourself from the Roman teaching as well... Look to the True Christian Faith
All who come to God in The Way He prescribes will receive His free gift of Salvation. Those become part of The Body of The Church of which Jesus The Christ is The Head. Those are the ones of The True Christian Faith. Only those of The Church will enter Heaven.
2007-06-06 07:33:14 · answer #4 · answered by idahomike2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, he sounds like a bit of a nutcase.
He sounds a bit obsessional, delusional, and paranoid.
Think long and hard about this. Even if you go down his path and study the bible hard every day, it is very likely that the two of you will differ in your personal interpretations of what is in there. A zealot like this may very well try to manipulate you or even physically harm you if your version and his disagree in some fundamental (or even trivial) way.
He's racist and probably bigoted in other ways as well (for instance his view on the relationship between men and women). If you cleave unto this guy, you will inherit his personal maelstrom.
He's trouble and you need to get yourself away from his psychosis.
2007-06-06 07:32:13 · answer #5 · answered by Izzy F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is nuts. He sounds like a highly controlling and highly abusive person. If you stay with him for more than another 2 minutes then you are equally nuts. I suggest you avoid being an abused spouse now before it is too late.
2007-06-06 07:30:27 · answer #6 · answered by Alan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the jerk and find a good Catholic boy who will respect you like a decent man should. This one will be nothing but trouble.
2007-06-06 07:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by tonks_op 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahahahahahah! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH! what a loon this guy is... God, if he is real doesnt hate anyone except those who do evil to other's...
hahaha, oh man I am sorry that made me laugh he is obviously crazy... sometimes I wonder where people get thier wacko beliefs... I am white, if he hates me thats just too darn bad I am not going to sink to his level.
2007-06-06 07:33:50 · answer #8 · answered by Soap Box Preacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now.
Get far away from this guy. He sounds like a serial killer in the making. No joke.
2007-06-06 07:29:47 · answer #9 · answered by igglydooble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would maybe safer if you dump this guy. Sounds like he has serious issues that need to be worked out.
2007-06-06 07:33:05 · answer #10 · answered by redmarc316 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋