I am attracted to my girlfriend's young sister. Is it ok if I.......?

Question

I have a girlfriend for three months now. my wish is to marry her.
But I have a problem. Her young sister is so sexy that I wish I could have sex with her.

The elder sister goes to work. She stays home (not mine. Theirs). I have always resisted the temptation to tell her how I feel about her in case she tells her sister. What can I do?

Answer 1

you are an ***. you say you want to marry this girl but you also want to screw her sister?!?!?!

you dont deserve this woman. let her go and leave the both of them alone.

you will cause nothing but pain for both of them if you stay.

Answer 2

No it's not a good idea (yet). I'm guessing if your considering it then you never want your ex back as a girlfriend and are willing to risk your friendship ? If it's meant to be then maybe be friends with your ex's sister too and things will take there own course. I'd leave any serious moves for at least 6 months though. Ages wise, not sure on legality in your country, here you would have to wait until she turns 16 then it's fine otherwise it's dodgy ground if things go wrong

Answer 3

Wow, this is a tough!

First, three months is a very short time to decide you want to marry her, and if the feelings you have for your girlfriend were truely love then you would not be distracted by the little sisters sex appeal.

Second, because you are already with the one sister if you try explain your passion to younger sister she will most likely kick you to the curb after all you are dating her sister. She may find you attractive but cannot act on them because of the sisterly bond. Most likely she will tell her sister.

Third, you can show your affection to the little sister she may take your offer, you hit off, the older sister will find out and then you've assisted in a huge family fued!!

Good Luck! You need to decide how important your girlfriend is to you before you make a decision.

Answer 4

Break it off with your girlfriend. In the first place, three months is too soon to know whether you want to spend the rest of your life with someone. You're both still on your best behaviour, trying to impress each other. You need to wait at least a year before making that decision. Secondly, temptation affects everyone (including your girlfriend), not just you, but mature adults know how to handle it. The fact that you don't tells me you're not mature yet. If you can't control yourself, then you need to remove yourself from the temptation and that means breaking it off with the girlfriend. Believe me, you'd be doing her a big favor as she needs a man, not a boy.

Answer 5

One thing that I have learned about relationships, when a man cheats on his wife and says it is because the other girl was so attractive he couldn't help himself it is almost never true. It shows that he has been either unhappy in his current relationship or has been entertaining thoughts (like you have) of being unfaithful and eventually he just gave in and did what he had been imagining. If it were based completely on good looks then why is it that everyone in hollywood cheats on their wives when they are married to the most beautiful people in the world, it is because looks have nothing to do with it.

In your situation, I would recomend you look at your relationship and see if this girl really does make you happier than anyone else in the world could, and if she does, than there is NO reason why you should have to think that you should be with someone else.

Answer 6

What do you see as being the ideal outcome of this situation? You tell the sister, you sleep with her, you marry the other sister and the older sister never finds out. So you're just going to lie to her for the rest of her life. So you have one sister you are using just for sex and another one that you are marrying and lying to. You are disrespecting both women.

If you want to sleep with other people, break up with the older sister first. If not, make a commitment.

Answer 7

You must not want to get married if u are thinking and wanting to have sex with another girl especially your girlfriends sister. My suggestion is to break up with the girlfriend now before you do something that will hurt her. If you are dumb enough to make a move Hopefully the sister will be smart and tell you exactly where to go.

Answer 8

I think you should tell the younger sister. I mean after all--whats the worst that can happen?

Well if shes under 18 and you are over 21--a lot. But if she isn't a youngin'...

Tell her sister you are interested and see what happens. It might just be a great one night stand. Of course I'm not saying it won't affect your relationship with your gf (in 3 month you have no idea if you want to marry her or not)--but you don't know until you try!

Answer 9

OK... so u wish to marry someone but u wanna sleep with her sister?? dude your not ready to think about marriage or even long term commitment if ALREADY after 3 months you want to sleep with someone else! but its not just a feeling u think will go, i mean, your considering telling her! any idea how low your g-friend would feel if she knew? i think you should break up with your girlfriend, and stay away from the little sister!
Dont get me wrong its totally natural to find other people sexy whilst in a relationship, your only human you dont become blind when u have a relationship! i have fancied others whilst with my man..... but the difference is i would never act on it. or even tell a soul. think about it love, and about hurting others.

Answer 10

Go for it. If the younger sis is legal, of course.
You never know, she could be better than the older sis.

I passed up a situation like this in high school and found out later that the little sis was a sexual animal! Regretably, I didn't take the opportunity when I had it.

Answer 11

Thats risky, you could create a big headache for yourself. If you try to hook up with the younger sister things could backfire in a big way, and you'll end up out in the cold. Make the choice carefully, think about what may occur. On the otherhand if your not worried about losing the older girl, go ahead have at it.