How do i get him to realize that we could be good together with out coming off all needy & obsessive. How do i get him to want me?
2007-06-06 03:57:23 · 17 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
most guys don't want anything to do with a girl that puts out when your not even in a relationship. If you try to get a relationship, it could get worse and he will most likely consider you cheap and needy. I'm not saying this to be mean, but thats what happens. If you really think that hes the guy for you, then let him alone and act like it didn't affect you that much,and after a little time has passed and you gain your senses over the situation, then maybe you should try for it. Though i think in this particular scenario, its better to let him come to you. and don't have sex with him again! Thats a sacred special thing to share between you and your husband!
2007-06-06 04:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by dragonflykagerou84 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-10 16:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you sure do sound needy and obsessive, so I doubt you will not come off that way to him. Just ask him out on a date and let things go from there. However if he hasn't already called you afterward, he probably realized you are only good for occasional sex.
2007-06-06 04:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why buy the cow.....? it's probably not the same as everyone thinks. yeah you had a one night stand and you're not sure if he's interested. It is possible that he may like you as much as you like him but then there are guys who sample the merch notch it up and leave em hangin dry. if you guys are still talking like friends ask him if he'd like to go out for coffee and a muffin. ask him if he's interested in pursuing a relationship...slowly...if he says no just be like Okay that's cool and you won't seem all needy and upset that all he wanted was a one night stand. you never know he could be wanting the same thing as you but you'll never know until you ask and stay interested.
Good luck
Aaron
2007-06-06 04:06:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start with asking him questions like..How come a great guy like you isn't in a relationship?...If he expresses that he doesn't want that right now then your best bet is to have no expectations and keep dating other people. Ask him if when does he see himself settling down...see what his long term goals are in that area....
2007-06-06 04:01:29 · answer #5 · answered by ~ ♥ ~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep having 1 night stands with him, after a few they won't really be 1 night stands anymore
2007-06-06 04:01:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that was not a one night stand because you know the guy. so now all you have to do is tell him how you feel and that you would like to take it to the next level. BD
2007-06-06 04:00:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think Goal #1 should have been: Win him over........(you know where I'm going with this right?) It's kinda late to try it NOW.
2007-06-06 04:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by tishadatgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well since you gave away the big prize he may not wany anything but a one night stand with you.......talk to him
2007-06-06 04:00:42 · answer #9 · answered by kc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By playing it cool. Show some casual interest, and flirt (not overtly). Let him chase you.
2007-06-06 04:00:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋