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The last time I spoke to this guy I told him not to call me anymore. That same nite he called me really late 6 times in a row but I didnt answer & he didnt leave a message. So I take it he got the hint.
However, off & on yesterday & even today, I'm finding myself thinking about him and actually MISSING him!!!!
I was even wondering if he has me on his mind like I have him on my mind.
I cant believe this. And I dont understand why I would feel this way when someone is not good for me to be involved with (due to his circumstances with his girlfriend of 22 yrs).
Why do I feel like I miss him? Am I nuts?
2007-06-06 03:52:36 · 13 answers · asked by Lala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't help it. You aren't nuts. The feeling you are having is normal and if you keep the mindset that he isn't good for you, it will eventually go away. You just have to be strong and not go back to what is "comfortable."
2007-06-06 03:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by jagerchick80 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you're nuts. I'm going through the same thing. Think about it, are you feeling that way because you're alone right now? You don't have to look for another relationship...cherish the ones you have already. Go out with your friends and really push everything aside so you can have a good time. I know it's hard to do but concentrate on having an awesome time and you will. No one should hold you back from being happy. I understand that you miss him but you really need to think about yourself (even though it might seem selfish) and be happy. If you don't, you might miss out on something very important. He probably is thinking of you but not the way you think he is. If he wasn't good for you in the first place, find someone who is.
2007-06-14 03:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by craziekittiekat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't crazy, but it's not fun being confused. Just from my experiences let me tell you that it could take a little bit to work out of your system. My first marriage was the worst, it was like something that you see on tv and say could never happen to you. I knew that it wasn't healthy for me physically or mentally. And leaving was the hardest. I missed him so much. I cried at night and thought about getting back with him. I more than likely would have ended up in the hospital or worse dead. But having him was at least better than nothing. It was the fear of being alone that kept me missing him. That's how I knew I was ready to move on. Once I did I never looked back.
If you know that this isn't good for you its hard but move on, and you will see that you won't miss him as much, then not at all.
2007-06-14 03:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by winterpixie_13 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you r not nuts! All women go through this. It does not matter time frame or age factor. An old crush from the past..
A love affair and that is all it was..Weather you are attached or unattached...Love is beautiful especially those that fade in and out of our thoughts and heart..I often get this way too when I think about the 1st "love affair" I had while I was a newly wed..and the "love of my life" from the past to the present and keeps taking me into a future?
2007-06-14 02:08:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you miss him because it is natural but believe it gets easier with time. You may never stop but you learn how to deal with it. You definately don't want to deal with him if he has had a girlfriend for 22 years. This tells you alot. (1) he loves her and doesn't want to let her go, (2) hee is selfish because he rather do her wrong to get what he wants than to be faithful, (3) that he is no good for you becaus ehe'd do the same thing to you and (4) he clearly has committment problems if someone has been your girlfriend for 22 years and you have not got married. Move on it has to hurt before it can heal.
2007-06-06 03:58:42 · answer #5 · answered by kiki_t 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You not nuts the thing is you might be developing a crush for him. Ask yourself why would he be calling you 6 times if he has a gf? if he calls again just tell him you would like to keep talking to him but not to over due it because of his girlfriend.
2007-06-06 03:58:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't crazy at all - it's completely normal that you would miss him. The important thing is that you are not falling into the trap of getting back with him after he treated you badly.
Do something to treat yourself and stay strong. Your feelings will get less painful over time.
2007-06-14 03:44:47 · answer #7 · answered by banana6464 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you're crazy about him so its ok. im guessing you two broke up so you're going to miss him a little, give it time and you'll 4get all about him. if not consider going w/ him again or find another hotter boy to chill w/ 4 awhile ( kinda like a rebound)
2007-06-06 03:57:14 · answer #8 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol your not nuts your IN LOVE .... give the dude a call ask him to meet u somewhere 4 lunch and make em urs!
2007-06-14 03:55:27 · answer #9 · answered by Provocative 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are so deep in love
2007-06-14 03:42:00 · answer #10 · answered by peaches101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋