slightly obsessed with sex ... or I really want to have it... but I'm a virgin and want to stay that way till I get married...but still.
2007-06-06 03:05:09 · 29 answers · asked by Krmfuentes 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you're feeling is normal, and of course you're curious. Stand your ground, and don't let anyone pressure you into having sex. It's nice to hear that some of the old values still exist in our society. Kudos to you!!!
2007-06-06 03:11:30 · answer #1 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is natural. your body has desires, but you are trying to keep your morals in line as well. I am proud of you, for what it's worth.
It is a hard urge to fight sometimes. I say to go with what you believe in and dont give into sex just out of desire. Wait til you do find that person you want to marry.
I dont know your thoughts on masterbation, but that is an option that can help control your need to have sex with someone before you are married. that is a personal choice.
masterbating is completely normal.
2007-06-06 10:11:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem with this train of thought is that when you finally get it you will find out that sex is good but it will not change your life or make you into a new person. So you will continue to have sex because you want that to happen and it wont. This can be very destructive to you. Sex should be a result of love, not the reason for love.
2007-06-06 10:07:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes the fact that you aren't having sex makes it 50 times worse because it becomes all that you want to do, or you wonder what it feels like, or who you are going to have sex with, etc...You could try and keep your mind off of it and think about other things, or go running or do an intense sport to work out some frustration. But it is apart of life, and waiting till marriage will not be easy!
2007-06-06 10:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by Manhan32 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I hear ya. I was the same way when I was a virgin. I think there is a natural curiosity. Also, there is a need to want to feel wanted in that way. I did wait until marriage and it was the smartest (yet most difficult) thing I have ever done in my life. I would say wait because you may regret it if you don't. My two older sisters always told me to wait because they both regretted giving in to boyfriends. I am VERY glad that I did because it made our wedding night wonderful for both of us.
2007-06-06 10:09:22 · answer #5 · answered by Moo Moo Mair 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's natural to want to know about sex especially since you have never had it before with anyone but yourself. If waiting until marriage is your goal then you should stick to it. It's hard when sex is so important to people. It always has been. You can set yourself apart from a lot of girls by accomplishing and staying true to your values.
2007-06-06 10:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by ronalee 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i wouldnt say you are obsessed, its actually quite normal for people who are virgins to be curious about it...i applaud you for waiting till marriage and you shouldnt worry youre not going crazy...and believe you me there's many other things you can do to experiment//wink wink and i get questions by young girls about masturbation and if that will de-virginize you and the answer is NO...its the safest way to take care of your needs and its healthy and normal...good luck hun
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2007-06-06 10:11:29 · answer #7 · answered by sunshine 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay a virgin it is the only way to keep you on Santa's good list
2007-06-06 10:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by Zippy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't wait, you might end up getting married to the wrong person just because you want to have sex. Go out, USE PROTECTION, and have some fun.
2007-06-06 10:08:11 · answer #9 · answered by cxzander 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
if you have never had sex, how can you be obsessed with it? I would say that you are obsessed with the idea of sex.
2007-06-06 10:07:50 · answer #10 · answered by Jill knows best 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋