I feel like he will never want to be close. I don't expect alot. The most hurtful thing he said once was that he didn't think he could get the same level of enjoyment from a relationship as he does from video games, or other hobbies. So, most of the time I feel like I'm last on his list. I hate it! I feel like he's so immature, I don't know how to help the situation. Whenever I talk to him about my feelings I just get more upset. I think it really hurts his ego that I am basically telling him he's not fulfilling my needs.
2007-06-05 20:33:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He certainly has some serious issues about feelings. His feelings and your feelings. So ask him if he has feelings and if he wants you to honor them. Then ask if he is aware you have feelings and you want him to honor your feelings. If he can follow you this far then get him to join you in counseling. You need to evaluate your marriage and determine if you want to continue with a partner who doesn't honor you or recognize your feelings.
2007-06-05 20:57:14 · answer #1 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems your are more upset about "your feelings" than you are about what he does or says. Yes if my wife told me that I was not meeting her needs it would hurt my ego. You obviously were already mad to begin with and didn't get the reaction you wanted and got more angry. Did he just become distant or did you you just become angry about it? Sounds like the Honeymoon is over for you.
2007-06-05 21:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by Red 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what is so immature about video games? i am 26 and me and my husband love vids. have you ever actually tried playing them before? they are actually pretty fun. and i don't consider myself immature because i play video games. maybe instead of complaining to your husband all the time that he never spends quality time with you maybe you could ask to hang out with him and do some activities that he enjoys and vice versa. stop being a ***** and maybe he will want to hang out with you :D
2007-06-05 20:38:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dump him after a short while - he does not deserve you. He does not love you.... and you are only tolerated.
2007-06-05 20:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋