I am confused right now, I have lost 70000/- Rs. in share market, the money was saved by my wife for our future. She does not know of the loss, shall I tell her or opt for some other way???
2007-06-05 20:12:27 · 21 answers · asked by petson_nick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Firstly move out of Share & Stock market if you want to prevent more losses, secondly tell your wife the truth & promise not to indulge in such speculation in future, no use hiding this fact from her as now nothing can be done in such a case money lost cannot be recovered now either by you or her only thing is to avoid such activities for the future. We do face losses in our life some way or the other but it doesn't mean life stops for us, we can make good for such losses in future in other ways. Have courage & believe in GOD. Best of Luck.
2007-06-05 20:26:00 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI...........
dear friend...you must surely speak to your wife about it rather that opting for some other way.....which would definitely lead you to more trouble....sought out the problem right now in its initiall stage by telling it to your wife.......
just think...if your wife lost the money which you saved and she opted some other way by not telling you.....i am sure you would have definately felt bad...so don't waste time and dont get into any further trouble....money is not a matter of fact,it can be earned again by hard work...but trust in a relationship cannot be earned if it is lost.....and just think.....there would be a future for both of you if you both are there together with each other...even in adversities.......so cheer up..and trust me...nothing would go wrong...rather.....i am sure you would be able to double the loss by your hard work and your wife's support.... so even if you have not told her...shut the p.c. and go tell her.......!!!
2007-06-06 10:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by divya s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with you wife. The share market and anything involving stocks or shares for that matter is basically unpredictable. If you hide it your wife will be insulted that you felt as though you could not come to her and know that you could discuss the matter. If you tell her I think she will be some what disappointed but happy that you considered her feelings and you didn't want to keep it a secret from her. Just be honest it will get you a whole lot further than a lie will. Good luck.
Charlie
2007-06-06 03:19:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
See basics of a good husband wife relationship is the truth and faith fullness. You may wait for some more time if you feel that you can recover this money from any source but if not then sooner is the better.
Good relationship means clear and transparent relation.
Be bold and have faith in your wife she will not make you to let down.
2007-06-06 03:22:17 · answer #4 · answered by Kabir S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her and maybe between the two of you something can be worked out to save some other way for your future - she will know eventually - so tell her now
2007-06-06 03:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by cheri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to tell her. You did not mean to lose it, you were only trying to do what you thought would be best. I'm sure she will be upset and angry initially but when she has calmed down she should be understanding and grateful that you told her. You'll have to tell her sooner or later anyway so you may as well get it over with.
2007-06-08 18:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by astridmary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your wife tactfully when she is in most tolerant mood. Share market is absolute gambling. Have u forgotten MAHABHARATA ? In modern age u r 3000 years behind. May God help u.
2007-06-06 04:57:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a loan of Rs. 70000/- n give it to ur wife. & pay the laon in instalment. Pls don't heart her feeling. She trust u & don't break the trust again.
2007-06-06 03:19:56 · answer #8 · answered by Amit K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mamu ... Kya hai ki Abhi tumko... fullto Market Jaane Ka aur Lage raho Munna Bhai ka dvd laane ka aur fillum dekhne ke baad phir ekdum fullto decsion lene ka bindaas .. Bole to tension nahi lene ka aur mammi phir bhi na maane to Mammu ...yaad se mammi ko ek Jaadu ki Jaffi dene ka kya....
2007-06-07 09:55:47 · answer #9 · answered by amitbaijal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you must tell your wife after seeing her mood, everybody knows the ups & downs of the share market , so she would be taking this in a nowmal way, I am sure.
2007-06-06 03:22:08 · answer #10 · answered by Gargi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋