2007-06-05 20:07:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Best thing is tell every thing honestly to your husband yourself,rather getting blackmailed by this past friend. I know as a broadminded husband he'll be help to you & tacle this man nicely. Just don't be scared to divulge any truth from your husband & see a positive result for your problem.
2007-06-05 20:31:08 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Priyanka,
It is sad that some people and some cultures still hold onto puritanical virtues from days gone by. I am assuming you are Indian and having spent time in Kolkata I found many rules different for men then they were for girls. It doesn't seem fair to me that women are held to a higher standard of behavior than their male counterparts. How strange that many of the guys want to be experienced and yet want their brides to be virgins. I wonder where all these non-virgin girls come from?
And then where do they go?
So if you really love your husband and are secure in your relationship with him, it may be time to 'fess' up to him. If you don't feel comfortable telling him, your only other option is to deny,deny deny!
But I would tell your past guy to go to hell. And if nothing else, you should stop calling him your past friend. Any lowlife that would attempt to ruin your marriage is no friend of yours. Now or in the past.
I wish you luck, but my opinion is you didn't so anything wrong having a boyfriend. Regardless of what you did with him.
2007-06-08 22:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by ezgoin_newyorker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, stop getting blackmailed from this past guy. Such people can exploit you only if you are scared. If you will show him that you are strong then he might not be able to blackmail you as he is doing right now. If he ever comes back to you then warn him that you will call the police and you are not scared even if he will tell anything to anybody.
Also try to take your husband into confidence, how so ever conservative Indian husbands are ( assuming based on your name), they will protect you especially its their honor too:))
You haven't done any crime by having a boyfriend.
2007-06-06 03:49:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The matter is seriuos. First of all you take your husband in your confidence and know the feelings how he reacts if he comes to know.
One thing is sure that your past friend is definately not your friend. He is a big cheat.
That will be better in any case if all the things are told to your husband by you instead of that cheater friend.
God bless you
2007-06-06 03:31:41 · answer #4 · answered by Kabir S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just explain to your husband
if you are true
if you don't keep faith on your husband
than share with some your near and dear may be faithfull person in your life
2007-06-06 03:53:18 · answer #5 · answered by rakesh s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is best if you talk to your husband because if you keep quiet your past friend might start to threaten you. it will be worst.
2007-06-06 10:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by vighnesvaran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have trust in your husband speak to him before he talks to you husband. consequences would be much better when compared to the torture from your ex.you have sown the seed. now reap it.
2007-06-07 15:09:59 · answer #7 · answered by Muruks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is this??? Pigeon??? Is this Galic??? I think I detect some English in there but I am willing to bet this is Old World Galic! Can we get a translator in here, please???
2007-06-06 03:17:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.....you need some serious English lessons......
2007-06-06 03:34:27 · answer #9 · answered by GS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need seious English lessons....
2007-06-06 03:10:46 · answer #10 · answered by ginger 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋