When can you figure out that you have married a wrong partner?

Answer 1

communication with one another is very important the moment you stop sharing with your partner things you have inside of you, because you feel he/she will judge you then you should reconsider that relationship. you should feel confident with your partner and free to express whats inside of you with being judge by them. your partner should be there for you for anything and a least understand you. if you dont have that i would definitly reconsider looking for a new partner. I am also a big believer of GOD, TRUST in HIM and he will provide you with a great partner.

Answer 2

You can figure it out at any time, you just have to really think and be honest with your feelings. I'm going thru the same thing. Sometimes I wonder if I fell in love with a man that I thought was someone else. He says he wants to change the way he treats me and our relationship, and that this isn't him; but I feel like I'm realizing certain things aren't going to change. Are you willing to stay with him, and live with the positive and negative, or are you unhapppy and looking for more? I just don't want to have any regrets, I want to be happy that I'm with my husband; but for the past few years it's been a struggle. I sometimes think I married someone like my father, who I really didn't have a good relationship with. I hope you can figure things out for yourself, cause it's not a fun question to wonder about.

Answer 3

there is no magical place you can go to find that out you have to ask your self 1 why you married that person ?
2 do you still feel the way you did ?
3 if you want to try and work at things or if you are ready to give up ?
once you know the answer to those questions you will have your answer

Answer 4

It's a perfectly normal question. But an entirely personal one that will vary from one situation to the next. A good marriage will survive such scrutiny and is ultimately a compromise.

If we were to drop the ball everytime we had the slightest doubt about anything then we would never accomplish anything.

On the other hand we need to have limits of what we will tolerate. Again, you set those limits for yourself.

Answer 5

This should have been discovered BEFORE you got married!

Understand that no guy is perfect; but do you think he has any feelings for you. Does he make any attempt to make you happy. Do you both have anything in common? Can you think of anyway to put the romance back in you marriage? If you can afford it, you could try going for some kind of counceling (he needs to go too or you're wasting your time).

Answer 6

are you happy? do you love each other? do you treat each other how YOU would like to be treated? Do you communicate effectively? is it just a bad patch?

you problem is something YOU have to figure out - no one can tell you so answer these qquestions to yourself (and more if you can think of any) and make a decision. Do actually make the decision and stick with it, dont be scared!

Answer 7

I think that when you ask this question thats a pretty good sign but don't jump to conclusions. Maybe there is a way to work things out. I don't know what your situation is in this relationship but think positive that there is a way to make it work.

Answer 8

usually on the honeymoon. i found out that my ex was the wrong person on our honey moon. thats when i found out that she thought sex was dirty. she was 19 years old. we split after about 3 months.

Answer 9

As soon as you start asking this question is a good indication.

Answer 10

As soon as the little lightbulb in your head turns on!