to work for some arrogant as*hole and you get holidays off.
2007-06-05 17:08:42 · 17 answers · asked by mercedesofladies36 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
id rather work 20 hrs for my family than 8 hours for an as*hole
2007-06-05 17:25:13 · update #1
Yes, I thank my husband all the time for working so hard to provide for our family.
He thanks me too for all that I do.
2007-06-05 17:26:34 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think he would like to hear those words, and it would make him feel good. I think it is a blessing when you are able to stay home and raise your kids because some women are not, including married women because of financial reasons. I know it is hard being a stay at home mom, especially nowadays. You need to understand that it is probably hard for him at work as well. I have been a working mom all my kids life and there is so much you miss out on because bosses don't care about nothing but getting their work out. Then there is the putting up with the attitudes of not only your boss but the other employees as well. I'm quite sure your husband has bad days at work as well, but he is willing to make that sacrifice so that you can stay at home and enjoy the love of raising your precious kids. I would say thank him and thank GOD for him.
2007-06-05 18:12:44 · answer #2 · answered by venita.bryant0149@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOL I don't think that stay at home moms get holidays off! Actually, a stay at home mom who is serious about her "job" in rasing kids, she starts her day when the kids wake up and doesn't end her day until the kids go to sleep (that is about a 19 to 20 hour day) and she has to work 7 days per week. Also...holidays are the busiest times for "stay at home moms", between shopping, school activities, etc. Then you have your families with multiple children, which just makes the job even more difficult. Then on top of all of this, there is laundary, dishes, cleaning, ironing, shopping, cooking...
Husbands who work get to go to work and then come home and rest...they also get weekends off, vacation time, holidays off, etc. So, yes, they bring in the money that supports the household, but thier jobs are much less involved than that of a stay at home mom.
2007-06-05 17:19:42 · answer #3 · answered by missapparition 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I thank my husband all the time. I am not a morning person and as long as i dont have to work I am not going to. I always had an evening job before we got married and he would rather have me home with the kids. I love my job. And yeah I do get paid.... I get clothes on my back, food, shelter, my children and I get spending money when the bill are paid for the week.... :) It is a FULL TIME JOB... not a 40 hour week job. Ours is 24/7
2007-06-05 17:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm very very grateful that I'm a stay at home but believe me it isn't easy. you don't ever really get any time off. the holidays are so hectic and trying to cook all the food and take care of the kids while your husband drinks beer and watches football isn't so easy. my husband gets to come home after work and relax while my job never ends.. i would way much rather be a stay at home wife and mother but its far from easy
2007-06-05 17:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by omama 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do. I just recently became a stay @ home mom after 2 1/2 years of my husband staying home. I send him text messages, and always tell him how grateful I am! I wouldn't miss these moments for the world!
2007-06-05 17:14:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
While I did find working easier in a lot of ways, I find staying home much more rewarding.
I thank my husband all the time. He works hard.
He thanks me all the time, too.
We have a wonderfully happy marriage and I'm sure a big part of it is that we spend very little time thinking about how much more we do than the other and instead dwell on what more we can do.
And to "Prick" don't assume we don't.
2007-06-05 17:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by momofthree 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I tend to be more willing to thank my husband if he is thankful of me. When he does nothing but complain and tell me how easy i have it, no I don't care to thank him because he has demeaned what it is the I do all day. But for the most part we are thankful for each other and we tell each other as often as possible. Everyone has bad days and thinks the other doesn't have it as bad. It is allowed!!
2007-06-07 14:41:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do. I thank my love by keeping the house half-way decently, making sure his DCU's are washed, I cook half the time(he likes to cook too so I fork over the pans), make sure all the bills are paid on time.
I also verbally thank him for doing a fantastic job of caring for us.
2007-06-05 17:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer S 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Rarely but it is a great thought that they should do that instead of complain and give him more jobs as soon as he comes in the door.
2007-06-05 17:14:48 · answer #10 · answered by barthebear 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋