2007-06-05 16:29:27 · 57 answers · asked by thunder217 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
oh and i just want to say its not happening to me ( well not yet...) . i was wondering cause somebody i know went thru this
2007-06-05 16:37:18 · update #1
scarred for life....
& never trust anybody ever, ever again
2007-06-05 16:30:42 · answer #1 · answered by × 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this happened to you personally it is a very tough situation. I would want to know the reason why they kept if from you for so long. You also have to realize that since they kept if from you they might have had fears too.
Take what you (if this is an issue you are having) are feeling and multiply it by 1000 that is what your parents are feeling anxiouty wise when they told you about them not being your family.
Remember that just having a baby doesn't make you a mother and a father its how you raise the child that makes the difference and makes you a family
Best wishes,
Toula
2007-06-05 16:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by Toula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have somewhat been there! My mom died when I was 5 in a car accident. The man who I thought was my father raised my brother and I after she died. I found out when I was 14 that he was actually not my dad, but my mom did not want me knowing, as my realy father was a jerk.
I look at it this way, the man who I thought was my dad, really is my dad. He raised me to be who I am today. What man would loose his wife at the age of 28 and still raise her child?
2007-06-05 16:32:56 · answer #3 · answered by hamcoming00 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I would be really hurt. I am 24 years old. I would want to know why they didn't let me know when I was younger. I would still love them no matter what, but I would definitely want to find my real parents. Ask them why they gave me up and if they have been looking for me too.
2007-06-05 16:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by Steven's Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are your parents, just not biological ones. I'd be shocked for sure but you know, how could people lose trust? Despite not being your biological parents, they still took care of you and they told you because they wanted you to know the truth.
2007-06-05 16:32:34 · answer #5 · answered by leikevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im an orpahan so i know how it feels the last time they told me was when i was 7 the excat time trhey told me i thought then who the hell have i behin with my whole life????? i felt like my life just stoped 4 a moment. then my heart started raceing and i had asked them y didnt they tell me sooner and they said that they were afrade that i couldne t take it or that they tought that i wouldnt like them anymore. i thought they were kidding or something when they told me. it kinda sucks cuz u some times dont know where your realy parents r or if thir dead or not.......it kinda depressing........when i go 2 sleep i alwase think where they r, its kinda like a ghost....its never leaves...it haunts you.
2007-06-05 16:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by bow_wow_girl_123@yahoo.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be shocked. Then I would look at life negatively and think "how many more lies are there in my life that I do not know about". I would be very upset and I probably would choose not to listen, or believe anything they tell me ever again. I would be a bitter person.....
2007-06-05 16:32:28 · answer #7 · answered by Stevie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would be upset,but ask them why they took so long to tell you.Ask them if they do know your real parents and if possible to meet them..Always assure them you still love and respect them,because that is where you got your character from.Please no matter what..assure them they are your parents that raised you to this age..
Best of Luck..
2007-06-05 16:34:39 · answer #8 · answered by Ftprintz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yippieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!
2007-06-05 16:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would never happen. I am a spitting image of both my parents. Put the two of them together and you get me.
2007-06-05 16:31:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd actually be really happy!!
Of course I love my parents but i'd rather not be in the same gene pool as them.
2007-06-05 16:32:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋