2007-06-05 16:05:22 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I am married. I appreciate my hubby take charge of certain things but not entirely. Marriage is like a partnership. 50-50. Both need to work out a successful marriage. One can't in charge of everything, every time.
2007-06-05 16:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by Troy Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. If he thought like that I wouldn't marry him. Marriage is not about one spouse or the other being in charge. Marriage is an equal partnership. Any husband who thinks he's going to be in *charge* of a relationship has another serious think coming from his wife.
You must be a. very young and b. never married to ask a question like that, and if you are married, you'd better change or you won't be married long.
2007-06-05 16:14:07 · answer #2 · answered by Nightlight 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sh*t NO! The idea of a relationship is also partnership, helping each other, caring for each other, encouragement of strengths and abilities, love and understanding. NOT one person in control/or in charge...relationships just don't work that way, somebody, some how, and some time gets pissed off and leaves it almost NEVER fails!
Just Quit with the Man is better then Woman belief Sandstorm and perhaps someday you may find a woman
that really wants to be with you as a person, not you as
"Master and her as Servant" until you do this I'm afraid you will continue to have "sad" women around you and even if you tell me thats what you want I won't ever believe it.
I think you are just a mixed up little boy who has know idea of how the "real" world works and mama and daddy didn't do their parenting job well in teaching you right from wrong, and you haven't anyone now to guide you or mentor you in an
appropriate way to "be" in this world. And THAT is what is sad and upsetting!
You used to really irritate me with your sexist, and abusive sounding questions. Now, I actually really just feel sorry for you!
JMHO
2007-06-05 16:22:31 · answer #3 · answered by Maggie B 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am married and yes, I want my husband to be in charge.
It is really important to have a marriage that is Biblically correct. I think that's the only way a marriage can be truly blessed.
2007-06-05 16:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You kinda asked this before. Like I said, he can be in charge, as long as he handles the finances as well as or better than me. If not, then I guess I'm doing it....again.
If you mean do I want him to replace my brain with his, then no. Unless I get the body, too...In which case, I'd be a guy, and I would not be answering this question.
2007-06-06 10:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by Puresnow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In charge is kind of "loaded". Marriage is a relationship but not a democracy. While both opinions should carry weight I do feel like the husband should ultimately be the decision maker, even if his decision is to let the wife decide. It's the way God designed it.
2007-06-05 16:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by Franny 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have no problem setting him as head of the house according to my religious beliefs, but that still means in our marriage we are equal partners and treat each other with respect. I dont believe in 50/50 marriage. I believe each of you give over 100% of your love to the other and in return the rest of the stuff really isnt that important so no one really needs to be in charge or control of the relationship.
2007-06-05 17:11:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's go back a few years, would I want my husband to be in charge of the marriage? Yes. Now we fast forward: Is my husband in charge? Yes he is.
2007-06-06 11:54:27 · answer #8 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. I think marriage is a partnership, unless of course there is more than wife in the picture and then I would just be the straw boss and let my husband be the head of the house hold but I am the neck that turns that head and the heart that holds him.
2007-06-05 16:09:18 · answer #9 · answered by icunurse85 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, I was raised to know that men are the one in charge. It sounds weird for some people but that's what I think.
2007-06-06 08:21:32 · answer #10 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋