how would you feel( or would of felt) if you could only have (or had) one baby?

Answer 1

so empty.

with one kid, you have to entertain the child all the time, their little life must be so lonely.

As an adult, I have noticed that people who grew up without brothers or sisters are weerd. Social issues.

Answer 2

I Would Feel Blessed Because There Are So Many People Who Wish They Could Have Or Had Just One..In 2002 I Was Told By My Doctor That I Might Not Be Able To Have Kids Due To The Possibility Of Having Cervical Cancer, I Had A Loop Precedure Done And Had To Report To My Doctor Every Three Months, I Was Devastated And Always Wondered What I Would Do If I Couldn't..Since Then I Have Tried Numerous Times But Nothing Happend So I Was Just Thinking Mabey GOD Said Its Not My Time To Have A Baby But Last Week I Got A Letter From My Doctor Stating That All Test Were Satifactory And I No Longer Have To Come In Every Three Months So That Means I DO NOT Have Cervical Cancer And I Will Someday Have A Baby Or Two Or even Three..GOD Is Good...

Answer 3

Well I would have mixed emotions I guess. I'm assuming if I could only have had one, that it would have been health related, and in that case I would feel lucky to have one baby because that is better than none and I would pour everything into that one baby, but I would also feel sad because I have always wanted a big family, and children of each gender.. there are so many rewards in raising girls, as well as boys, and I can't imagine my life without my 2 sons and 1 daughter. And siblings are wonderful as playmates while they're children and friends when they become adults.. I would hate it if I didn't have my sister and brother.. how boring my childhood would have been without them!

Answer 4

Should I have only been blessed with one baby, I would have felt the little one to be one of the great gifts given to me; rare & precious, of which, few things could compare. However, I was blessed with 3- and I still feel that way about each of them.

Answer 5

I have a 3 1/2 year old son, we tried for almost a year before getting pregnant, we prayed for another child daily. God finally answered our prayer. But if you cannot have another, there is a reason for everything. I wish you could have another. There is noting in the world like children. Best wishes to you. I am currently 37 weeks 5 days with boy #2. It take alot of worry, work, and prayers though. Good luck to you.

Answer 6

I was told at 15 that i would never have children. When i was 19 i was on birth control and yet i still got pregnant with my daughter who is now 20 months. When i went back to the doctor after 6 weeks of having her i asked him what my chances of getting pregnant were he told me not too good. Well now i am 5 months pregnant with a healthy baby. So i believe that miracles do happen. but i know when they told me that my daughter would be my only i was looking to adopt.

Answer 7

It is heart breaking. I had my daughter 7 years ago and then had a miscarriage and just now I am 10 weeks along.

Unless you have a child you do not really truly understand how a person feels after years of trying. It breaks you down emotionally until you fall into a depression.

Infertility is a serious thing. Not something someone should just pass off as bad luck.

Answer 8

I have a beautiful 5 year old daughter at home who lights up my life. However my husband and i have been trying for almost 2 and ahalf years for a second baby. I've had 2 miscarriages in those 2 and a half years. my daughter asks frequently for a sibling. it breaks my heart that i've been unable to have another this far. i would love nothing more than to be a mother again.

Answer 9

I only have one now and pondering having the second...but that may not happen. At this point, I feel blessed to have went through a healthy pregnancy and to have a beautiful son. I don't think I would feel extremely awful if I couldn't have another child. God has given me my son and for that I am thankful alone. Interesting question, though...!!

Answer 10

Well I'm going to start trying for a 2nd baby this week, and would be very sad if I couldn't have another. I would be sad for my daughter if she couldn't have any siblings. I am so nervous about trying this time, even though I got pregnant the first month I tried with my daughter. Wish me luck.

Answer 11

I always wanted a LARGE family, like 6 kids. Then I married, and decided 3 would be good. It took me a long time to get pregnant with my first child. The day the let me hold him, I knew that if I wasn't blessed to have another child, that it would be OK. He was going to be healthy, and he was enough. I was completely content with him. I wasn't planning on having any more, but since it took me so long (and fertility drugs) to get pregnant with #1, I wasn't doing anything to prevent getting pregnant with #2. And then, God decided that Jack needed a playmate, and we got Henry (Hemi, as Jack calls him). Be grateful for what you have, and you might get what you want.