Only you can make this decision. 20years ago my boyfriend and I separated because of his work and travel. I didn't want to leave my family behind. I am happily married with 2 children now, but my heart still aches for him.
If I had that choice again I would have at least given it a try. You will always meet new people on your life's voyage.
Good Luck.
Follow your heart.
2007-06-05 13:27:15
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes, for me I would move or stay in the U.S. In general it would more likely be easier for a person with a Middle Eastern background and family to live and adjust to the U.S., than for someone from the U.S. to move to the Middle East.
However, it depends on the couple. Sometimes what seems easiest is not where you need to be. I heard a tragic story of a man who moved to America and started a family here, but the daughter was so harassed in school for being Muslim, the parents separated and the father regrets moving here.
Any place may or may not work out, and that could be either good or bad for the couple.
It depends on what needs you have socially, economically and spiritually also to maximum your health, happiness, and satisfaction in life. You and your partner would have to work out what is best for both your needs, and also leave room if the situation changes.
2007-06-05 12:54:41
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answered by Nghiem E 4
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listen part of getting married is starting your own family, parents loved ones and friends will always be there. Your affraid that if you go things won't work out and you will either be stuck there or come back home humiliated. the is only one way to find out. I would move but i wouldn't move to america especialy if your from the middle east, people from the middle east are looked at funny in america, its a shame but they tap your phone just to make sure your not a terrorist. Why cant they move to where you are is another good question, I think you should stay,.
2007-06-05 12:52:38
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answered by Anonymous
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I did, and it was the biggest mistake of my life. When the only way you know someone is by phone and email, you can both "be" whoever you want to be. The relationship is not real, and that will be painfully obvious when you at last get together.
I moved from New Zealand to be with a girl in California, and lost everything... It lasted about a month (we had known each other 3 years and spent about 6 weeks together previously). It took a long time to get my life back together. Now I'm married, have a wonderful life (still in California), but that experience was one of the most painful of my life.
2007-06-05 12:50:33
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answered by zoeboxcat 4
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Good question. Several years ago I moved from the US to the UK for my wife. It was good living there for a few years; we eventually moved to the US. It was worth it to be with my beloved. Of course, moving from the US to the UK is not as big of a culture shock as moving from the Middle East to the US.
You sound very bright and articulate. I think you will do just fine in the US. We Americans welcome people from all over the world, including the Middle East.
2007-06-05 13:17:38
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answered by sandislandtim 6
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i assume it actual relies upon on your age. in case you're on your 20's, i think of that it can be a stable thought if purely to stay your existence slightly greater totally. residing in a various usa incredibly does make a you a greater helpful rounded individual. Plus once you reside some the place, its who you're with no longer the place you're. I moved around the U. S. for somebody that I had a dazzling courting with, even though it grew to become out that she didnt love me. I dont remorseful approximately moving, yet you often be able to pass back if issues dont artwork out. think of of it as an test if something, have relaxing with it, regardless of if the courting doesnt artwork.
2016-11-05 01:32:47
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answered by asar 4
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yeah I would move half way across the world for my significant other..we were actually talking about moving out of America together...I would do that because I love him so much and he is all I need.
2007-06-05 13:17:19
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answered by Deb 2
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No. I would not move that far from my family to be with someone else. Most marriages end in divorce but your family and friends are forever. I won't move to another country for anyone. You have to live your life for yourself. You can't have someone else dictating things for you. Anyone can promise you the moon and stars but once you make that leap, it's hard to go back.
2007-06-05 12:53:19
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answered by Delete 4
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do you mean would you stay in the middle east? no. unless i really knew i loved a person and that she was the one.
2007-06-05 12:47:50
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answered by Andrew G 2
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I would move to Mars for my "other".
2007-06-05 12:51:10
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answered by DidoDeeDee 3
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