Would you stay with them so you wouldnt be lonely and you were afraid that you wouldn't meet anyone else or would you leave them and wait for your true love? I'm just wondering. I was in a situation like this and was wondering what other people would choose to do. Be honest. I only want serouis answers please.
2007-06-05 12:07:32 · 13 answers · asked by ? 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Just for the record I am not in that relationship anymore I was just wondering if you would of done the same thing that I did when I was in that type of relationship but I know I did the right thing. Just wanted to clear that up. Thank you for answering.
2007-06-05 13:15:22 · update #1
well I was in a similar situation and I left. Well actually we both choose to go our seperate ways, she brought it up though and I felt compelled to say my mind-turns out we both weren't happy and ..as the song goes..the thrill was gone.
I'm very much happy now and have met the person I feel personally I was meant to be with. I don't believe in destiny but I feel that's what my wife and I have.
breaking up with the ex was the best thing i've ever done.
leaving obviously wasn't easy-but the joy I now have has easily helped me forget the bad times. I wouldn't trade my experience for nothing.
2007-06-05 13:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You would not be fair to yourself or him if you stay in this relationship particularly if it's just to keep you from being alone. If you are not meant for each other, it's best to end it now so both of you can proceed on with your life. I would rather be alone than to be with the wrong person in a relationship. I am thankful after being alone for years to have found the love of my life and the woman I'm meant to be with forever and if you want to find true love, it certainly has to be with the right one for you.
2007-06-05 20:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by toughguy2 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are unsure and think he is not the one -\
-by all means leave !!!!!
Don't make the mistake I did and marry someone so totally wrong for you , have 2 kids and wait many years to finally get up enough guts to leave.
In my case it ended happily because I have finally met my true love and will be with him soon. He makes me happier than I have ever been and he has shown me what a true and real love is all about.
So if you have doubts --get out before you waste too many years with the wrong one. And if maybe later he turns out to be the right one --- you will be led back to him.
Good Luck !!
2007-06-05 19:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by girlnamedmaria 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You probably will stay for a while, because your love is stronger than pride although, you know, you will suffer enormously staying "put". I want to say, you will be the only one, judging your actions in the "game of love". You know what is right, but if you stay, there is nothing wrong with you . Take the time you need and be prepared, to anything. Good luck!
2007-06-05 20:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I realize that I am not meant to be with that person i end the relationship, there is no point staying with someone just so your not alone!
2007-06-05 19:12:43 · answer #5 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave and wait! No use staying and waisting time if hes not the one
2007-06-05 19:12:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not stay in a relationship for the sake of not being alone.
2007-06-05 19:10:23 · answer #7 · answered by manonski 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how would you know you werent ment to be with that person unless you meet someone better? if i met someone better then yes i would leave the relatiionship, because its a waste of time being with someone you dont get along with or you dont like
2007-06-05 19:12:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it!!cause then it'll just become a habit and then you'll never get away!never stay in a relationship other than love!
2007-06-05 19:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by ....FED UP............ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No the first rule is be true to thy self
2007-06-05 19:12:46 · answer #10 · answered by Gypsy Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋