should i throw her out?

Question

we have been arguing all weekend on sunday evening things settled down.
one of the main items we argued about was the fact of her using money for what ever she wanted including lending to friends.
i stated that i was now going to take care of the family finances
well today i find out she has gone behind my back and bought a pram without discussion.
and has paid for it
even after we had argued about this on saturday night( we have four prams already)
what do you think

Answer 1

I feel a relationship is based on two people and obvivously she is doing what she wants without the consideration or repect of you....If you can't trust her then what do you have??
I guess the things she is doing and has been doing is more important to her rather than how you feel....It's not like she doesn't know....I would think she probably doesn't care and you need to have value for both the relationship in and the person your with.... I hope either way things work out for you...

Answer 2

I'm assuming you're married. This is not a reason to throw your wife out.

She obviously cannot handle the finances (it's ok, some people just aren't good at that). You just take care of them from now on. Decide on a weekly allowance that she can do whatever she wants with (and don't get involved in that). Open up a separate account for her to manage.
She shouldn't touch the family money anymore. If she wants money for something large, then she'll have to save up for it, or come discuss it as a couple (which is what she should have been doing anyway).

Answer 3

I would open up a new bank account in my name and transfer all the money into it.
I would get a print out of all transaction to the account and create a house hold budget.
I would create a schedule to pay everything on time.
I would determine how much money she has to contribute to cover the monthly bills and inform her that anything above that amount she is free to do as she likes. They same also goes for you. However, I would not let her have access to it. She is clearly on responsible with money.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

I don't think that's grounds to leave a person but maybe their is something that you are messing try to talk it over and get her point of view she might just be acting out to prove a point to you . Try and have a discussion without arguing. Good Luck

Answer 6

You're not with a financially responsible person. You don't her to be a burden to you. A partnership is based on equal access, trust and decision-making. Your idea of running things isn't the answer. I suggest moving on.

Answer 7

Polite and firm, you don't have to kick her out. Are you two married? Does she work? Maybe separate the money, she pays half the bills you pay the other half. Then she can spend the rest of hers how she sees fit, and being that it won't be your money, you won't have to worry about tracking it and whining about where she spends it. Good Luck

Answer 8

i think u both want different things in life, and in any relationship if u cannot trust the the person and if they are spending monies u need for family, than she isn't all that into family and reality, it may be time to end the relationship and save your sanity. u can't change others or make them who u want them to be, if u can't accept her for who she is, change things and end the relationship.

Answer 9

Tell her that you will have your own account from now on and if she wants to spend money on silly things then she will have to suffer. Don't lend her any of your money.

Answer 10

What's a pram?