2007-06-05 09:51:49 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Are there like any boot camps or change ministries that can help me with this?
2007-06-05 16:05:05 · update #1
Wow! Satire doesn't work very well on Y!A, does it?
2007-06-06 04:37:54 · update #2
Yeeeeeah, sugarpie-honeybun, you know that I love you (I love pretty much everyone ^_^), but sexual preference is def. NOT a choice. Try all you want, but if you weren't meant to be a lesbian, you'll only be acting and trying to fool everyone AND yourself.
You should just be happy the way you are. Being a homo (like yours truly *waves*) isn't all it's cracked up to be. I mean, I'M enjoying it, but thats because it's just who I am. If I was trying to be something I'm not (like str8), I WOULDN'T be happy... trust me, I used to try. So, just be happy being you! Loves
~!*Mr. Izzy Fabulous*!~
2007-06-05 10:54:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry, but you cannot BECOME a Lesbian. People are born LGBT, its not a choice.
I mean you cannot make yourselves have feelings for the same sex if you dont have feelings for them. Its not something you can force. If you feel attracted to women then you may be bi or a lesbian.
Explore your sexuality and see if any feelings beside an instant attraction surface. For instance, sexual feelings, etc.
Good luck!
2007-06-06 04:10:27 · answer #2 · answered by NCIS ♥ Addict 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you believe sexual preference is a choice just choose it! Find a lesbian and tell her you would like to be one also. She might help you out.
2007-06-05 10:44:43 · answer #3 · answered by Girly Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it is a CHOICE, too!
Are all the guys you know really such scum-bags that you really feel you HAVE to make this choice? I think a lot of women are moving in that direction because they are just so disillusioned by the alternative, it becomes sort of a LAST RESORT to them!!!
If there were more REAL MEN left out there, you wouldn't even be ASKING this question. I, myself, CHOOSE celibacy instead. Maybe SOMEDAY, before I'm dead, I WILL meet a REAL MAN who is suitable....I sure freaking HOPE so, anyway!!! I personally don't think another woman comes equipped with what you REALLY need, but.....good luck, honey!
2007-06-05 11:12:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you feel that you physically attracted to women? And have no interest in man? If so, you don't become a lesbian, YOU ARE A LESBIAN. And you don't need to do anything.
But if you just curious, its a different story.
2007-06-05 10:04:00 · answer #5 · answered by virgo_11214 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only choice you could have for becoming a lesbian is to go to jail and that would only last for as long as you were there.
2007-06-05 10:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by Amy m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't all u can do is either except being straight or try being sexual with a women to see if u like it or try dating a women and see if u can be happy with a women.if ur bisexual then u could just give up dating men and stick to women.
alot of us women have been hurt by men up and alot of us have tryed dating a women for some that worked(they was happy) and for others it didnt like it didnt make them happy.
2007-06-05 09:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by ms_pink_cutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
Well I guess you could try it out of a freewill choice and then if you don't like it then that would prove your theory wrong... That's how they do it in science class, only this kind of experiment would be fun! Tell us how it works out...the world needs to know once and for all!
bye bye
2007-06-05 10:30:11 · answer #8 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's a choice for you, then I would think you would want to explore a same-sex relationship. But, if it's a choice, you may want to choose between one way or another and stick to it (i.e. bi, gay, or straight). Sexuality is extremely important to people because it helps define who we are as a person.
2007-06-05 10:53:23 · answer #9 · answered by matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual preference might be, but not sexual orientation. And no, you cannot become a lesbian. Either you are or you aren't.
2007-06-05 19:09:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋