Seems like everytime we go out she has to complain about something. For example if we go out to eat she always says there's something wrong with the food. Can someone please help me
2007-06-05 09:45:11 · 13 answers · asked by shygirl0033 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If she's a complainer, you can tell her it bothers you, and she will either work on it or not...if not, you have to decide if it bothers you enough to leave her, or if you can just overlook it.
2007-06-05 09:49:33 · answer #1 · answered by ☮ wickey wow wow ♀♀ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know. maybe shes not the girl for you? I'd need more background. Perhaps when she complains ask her what you can do to make it better, and if she says nothing then you could respond with something like- I (like or love, wherever you are in your relationship) you so much and want you to be happy, but it distresses me when you are unhappy about things that we can not change, lets try to make the best of things when we are together... and if she cant stop with subtley given clues..then say... YOUR CONSTANT COMPLAINING IS ANNOYING ! STOP!
2007-06-05 09:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by labbalabbadoo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! I wish that's all my girlfriend would complain about! We argue ALL the time. Mostly over cleaning up. Most of it is bull crap. We either deal with it or peace the hell out. I have thought about leaving my girl,but petty arguing isn't worth losing her. What can I say? I love that spoiled brat.......
2007-06-05 10:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by sexygal8321 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her pick the place.
If she doesn't like it, then she only has herself to blame.
Tell her constant complaining is bothering you.
Constructive critisism should be well worded, but if she can't take it...time to find a new girlfriend.
2007-06-05 09:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha ha.....i am bisexual and this is funny my girlfriend is a negative pessimistic person......she complains about everything....i have basically taken to telling her that she is ungrateful.....she has so much to be thankful for and she chooses to complain.....i dont get involved with it other than to tell her that i dont want her negative energy around me and i get the hell away from her until she can act civilized.....hows that
2007-06-05 09:55:22 · answer #5 · answered by free 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but some women are just b*tchy their really is no reason. Just do what I do block it out or have a drink or better yet get her a drink so she can wind down.
good luck
2007-06-05 10:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by kay b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it:)
Tell her to stop complaining and eat the damn food.
2007-06-05 09:49:24 · answer #7 · answered by SarahMoore! 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your girlfriend is suffering from a disease called nagging. This can be cured if you let her know that it bothers you and you want her to change.
2007-06-05 09:53:47 · answer #8 · answered by Curious mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you either tell her how much it makes you fed up.......or get rid.
Life is too hard without some one making it miserable daily by moaning, ya deserve a partner that will always make you happy and one who you are proud to be with.
2007-06-05 09:54:56 · answer #9 · answered by turkeyhug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell that lying cheating, chick to get a grip.
2007-06-05 10:00:56 · answer #10 · answered by Lundon R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋