OK, my ex and I broke up a bit back. She doesn't have a drivers lience due to the two DWI's she got two years ago in rapid succestion, yet she still drives around like it didn't matter. She is even suposed to have one of those breathalizer things on the car that you have to blow into to get the car to start, but again she has not gone to take her classes, she has not had the breath thingie installed and still drives around...
>:)
I am thinking really evil thoughts about calling and reporting her to the police....
Please tell me to let it go and just move on...
Please let me know that THINKING about it is OK, but DOING it is just wrong....
2007-06-05 09:17:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Future MRS sounds like my ex. The relationship is over, over, over, but just can't stop thinking about her driving around with her 10yo daughter...
2007-06-05 09:45:36 · update #1
I know this thought came out of spite but CALL THE POLICE!!!If she has already had not one but 2 dwi's she is highgly dangerous behind the wheel of a car and not trustworthy hence why they took her license.One of these days she WILL KILL SOMEONE!!!Do the right thing and call the police and report her I dont think you would like to have a familly killed by her on your mind knowing you could have prevented it!!!Yes I know you thought about this because she probably did you wrong but screw that whole will I be a bad person for telling on her it's your duty to call and report her.DO THE RIGHT THING CALL THE POLICE!!!
2007-06-05 09:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by amanda c 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think as a good citizen you should call the cops. She is breaking the law and could injure or even kill someone with her drinking and driving past. She has been given orders to have things installed in her car and she is driving illegally without a licence, be it your ex or not it is not evil it is being concerned for other person's in and around your city. Report her ASAP just make the call and get rid of the guilt your living with keeping her secret.
God Bless and Best Wishes.
2007-06-05 16:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
She has a problem. She has been arrested for DWI and yet continues to drink and drive. She needs help and it isn't the kind of help you can give her.
Call the local police and tell them. Let the people who are supposed to handle these situations do so. It isn't revenge. If she drives drunk, she could kill people and she could die.
2007-06-05 16:31:48 · answer #3 · answered by Gymbal31 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing bad or evil about wanting to be a responsible citizen and help society at large avoid someone so reckless from being in a position to seriously hurt someone. Is that what it will take for you to take action? Do it for the right reasons, and you have absolutely nothing to feel guilty about.
2007-06-05 17:20:52 · answer #4 · answered by RickNY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if she got into an accident and killed someone because she was drunk driving? You really should turn her in, not because she is your ex and that is a really great way to get revenge on her, but because you have the potential to save a life or two by getting her off the road.
2007-06-05 16:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by texmex 1 · 5⤊ 1⤋
If i were you id make the call. I mean, you could be saving a mother and her baby. You dont know, and i hope you do this so you dont have to find out. Could you imagine the guilt on you if you didn't do this and she did drive around and accidentally kill someone?
Good luck.
2007-06-05 16:28:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if you turned on the evening news and heard that your ex just killed a pedestrian?
I don't think it's out of vengeance for you to call the cops on her. She's putting herself and others in danger of her reckless behavior.
2007-06-05 16:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by Ella 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough call. If you're just being spiteful - let it go and move on. She will get what she deserves.
If she is driving with your children in her car, or you're concerned about the safety of others, make the call.
It sounds to me like you should just let it go
2007-06-05 16:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by Insurance Biz CT 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tough call.
I would confront her and tell her to install the breath thingy or you will call the cops on her. If she is not supposed to be driving then she should not be driving. Drunk drivers are the most dangerous people on the road. If she kills someones baby will you regret not saying anything?
2007-06-05 16:25:17 · answer #9 · answered by MissUnderstood 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
What would make you feel worse? Calling, possibly saving the life of the kid who will find the cure for cancer, or not calling and letting poor Timmy die! Do you want that on your conscious? Call for baby Timmy!
2007-06-05 16:25:34 · answer #10 · answered by juggalizzle 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋