Does the Other woman ever get the married man ?

Answer 1

Sadly, I deal with the results of extra marital affairs all day long. And I mean it when I say RARELY does the other woman go on to have a successful marriage or even relationship with the person she is having an affair with.

The most common scenario is a married man who is having marriage troubles, usually not enough sex or a stagnant relationship. He finds someone, usually by accident, who is lonely, sexy, exciting, and can breathe a breath of fresh air into his (what he thinks) boring life. The affair goes on for a little while, until the wife finds out or the man feels guilty. Keep in mind that 9 times out of 10, the woman is being used for sex. When it comes down to it, the married man realizes he has a friendship and bond with his wife that he doesn't have with his "distraction." There are usually children involved, and he doesn't want to hurt them. That said, he drops the other woman and goes home to his wife. I hear it all the time, "She meant nothing to me," "She was good for sex," "It was exciting but that's it."

On the rare occasion he will leave his wife for the other woman, keep in mind that eventually he will get bored with her too, and the cycle repeats itself.

Bottom line -- find someone available.

Good luck.

Answer 2

Sometimes the "other woman" doesn't want the married man. Everyone seems to put the blame on the man here but I know women that are just as bad at wanting a thrill or to spice up their routine, boring marriages, at the expense of another family. It works both ways people. Women aren't always the "victims", though I know a lot of them like everyone to think they are.

Kudos for the poster that said "Yes, she got mine and I'm happy that she did". That happened to me too, (she was married and a close friend of mine, I thought). Our marriage broke up, she left her husband, and they have been miserable for over 25 years now. Lord knows why they stay together... I kind of feel sorry for them, but I've gotten over it long ago.

I'd say, if you are the other woman, wake up and move on. Do you realize what your doing and are you proud of it? Do you honestly want him and could you trust him if you actually did get him? Or is it just the "forbidden fruit" phenomenon?

If you are the wife and "victim", decide if he's worth it and go from there. The other woman may be doing you a favor...

Answer 3

The odds are against the other woman especially if they have kids together, rarely does the husband leave his wife for the other woman and even if he does, the outcome does not look good. He for one will either have his fun with you for a short time and then dump you for a more trustworthy girl with morals as nobody thinks too highly of a homewrecker, or things could get serious between you both and then later he will do the same thing to you.

Answer 4

My husband had another woman as soon as I found out about it, he dropped her like a hot potato. The other woman very rarely ever wins. Most men will not leave their wife and kids for the other woman. Mine cheated because his physical and emotianal needs were not met. So, my advice to you, if you are the other woman, you need to do yourself a favor and leave this man alone, you will only get hurt. And if you the wife you need to make a choice if you can live with this and you need to look at yourself, too. So many women are quick to feel sorry for themselves when their man cheats on them, but most men cheat out of physical necessity. Some are just dogs and will cheat even if they are getting sex from their wife 3 times a day, but not likely.

Answer 5

you're in step with risk happening assumptions , it is not undemanding the two for men or women persons , yet i assume you are able to say greater men than women persons are in this section (married to non-emiratis) ; and the statistics do no longer mirror the form of non-emirati better halves who grew to grow to be emirati voters with the aid of way of marriage , so which you have got diverse numbers if it incredibly is taken into consideration. yet another element is this is that Arab nationals are counted among foreigners yet from an emirati cultural view they do no longer look to be seen a "foreigner" in the experience a eu or an Asian could be a foreigner. There are fairly some Emirati citizen couples the place the two the dad and mom weren't even born to Emirati dad and mom , and the two born out of UAE yet grew to grow to be UAE voters later. i comprehend such examples , and likewise i comprehend of an Emirati female who replaced into married to a Syrian guy and that that they had 2 youngsters , then they divorced. the two between the little ones have been given issued UAE citizenship (this replaced into long in the previous this new regulation) after the mummy gained a written signed fact from the Syrian father asserting he has no longer something to do with them, and could no longer call for custody later.

Answer 6

You would want to marry a man that treated his wife this way?

And what makes you so different as his wife?

The real question is, does the marriage last with the "other" woman?

Answer 7

After 17 years, my man who left his wife and grown children for me, has now found another woman. he does not want to lose me and what we have had all these years, but doesn't want to lose her as well. Yes, she is in the position of being the "other woman" now and has thought to walk away from him. I seemingly cannot without feeling a great deal of pain, and perhaps she cannot as well. he is a good man by nature and very gregarious and loving by nature. He and I have great communication and a strong bond but he does not want to be restricted and he finds marriage restrictive. He is 71 years old and attractive to women, especially his personality. Am I a fool to continue with him?

Answer 8

Yes.

But then the Other Woman becomes The Wife. And someone else becomes the Other Woman.

I haven't met a man yet that left his wife for another woman that didn't end up cheating on the new wife.

Answer 9

99% of the time NO! Most married men are doing it to run and escape from their day to day troubles and get that high of sneaking around. But when the wife finds out, and we always do they drop their lovers like a hot rock and that is because they really were not in love or had feelings for their lovers, it was just sex.

Answer 10

In all of my experience NO! I have dated two men that were married. One even said he was technically married, whatever that means. He told me he would never divorce his wife because of their kids. He said that they had not done anything together for a very long time, but she was still calling and asking him if he was cheating on her. The other was the same way only his wife knew they had separate lives.