2007-06-05 08:32:49 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have the same problem. Best thing you can do is steer clear.
There was a time when women were afraid to mess with their man. Why? Because if he left, they would be in financial trouble. That is no longer the case.
Further, there was a time when a woman risked getting a good smackdown for treating her husband thusly. I'm not justifying it AT ALL, but it likely made sure she thought twice before she disrespected him.
Women want to control men. But they don't like men who allow themselves to be controlled. That is the paradox. You are in a no-win situation.
Best thing I've learned is that you CANNOT please such a woman. It's HER problem, not yours (though it sure feels like it).
If she complains that you don't help around the house, you can start doing that, but then she'll push the envelope further, wanting you now to do this, this, and this.
She is WANTING a confrontation. Why? Because she seeks to control you.
Ideally, you hope she gets hit by a Mack truck while out on a solitary jog.
But until then, you must do this: YOU MUST LIVE YOUR LIFE. Do what is right BY YOU, and forget about trying to please the unpleaseable *****.
She can get on board...or she can be frustrated for life...but don't let it bother you.
2007-06-05 08:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 6⤋
Have you ever challenged her on this, and does she realize she's really being bitchy? That's the important factor. Some women have been raised in an atmosphere of bitchiness and don't even realize that it's not acceptable behaviour.
You need to bring it out in the open, and attempt to reason with her that she's causing unnecessary problems with her attitude. Ask her, first of all, to sit down calmly and discuss the issue with you, and let her know what it's doing to your relationship. Stay cool, and if she continues in her arrogance, give her fair warning that you aren't about to tolerate it any longer. Make it plain to her that there are consequences she might not be able to control if she continues to "*****"!
2007-06-05 08:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by Julia D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all why is she being bitchy? if she is bitchy by nature and it has nothing to do with anything that you are doing,saying,etc...then there is probably not much you can do..she just is bitchy...however if you are agging her bitchiness on stop and try to be a little more understanding or how about be nice.
2007-06-05 08:48:31 · answer #3 · answered by leisa k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are the specifics? How do you perceive bitchiness? Maybe she's not getting what she needs from you, like a mature relationship with a mature man who sincerely loves her and cares about her. On the other hand, maybe you married a bitchy woman. Who knows? We need more info already.
2007-06-05 08:37:59 · answer #4 · answered by gma 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her that doe in the headlights look, most women expect a fight when they start getting bitchy, this will throw her off her game plan, or say to her, let's have some ice cream together.Then after the ice cream moment, take her to bed and give her the best damn sex she ever had, that will keep her engines kool for a moment, make sure you cuddle and tell her how awesome she is, that keep her ***** meter down.
2007-06-05 08:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by Maria A. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try helping her out! Lots of women are bitchy because they feel like they do everything and all the guy does is go to work. Maybe you should help her out around the house and with the kids (if ya'll have any kids). Surprise her every once in a while with flowers or something of that sort. Maybe she just needs to feel appreciated.
2007-06-05 08:38:44 · answer #6 · answered by Lori J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't say anything to her that would make her in an even worse mood. Don't say things like you're bitchy or in a bad mood. That could make it worse. Kill her with kindness and try to make her laugh or at least smile. Spend some extra time with her.
2007-06-05 08:36:10 · answer #7 · answered by Brownie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you should treat her with respect. Behave as if you feel like you're the luckiest man on earth that she agreed to share her life with you. Offer to help her with the children. Put your wife and children's needs before yourself. Always consider their feelings before you act or say something. If you follow these suggestions, you wife will probably turn into the sweetest woman you've ever met.
If not, then the two of you might want to look into marriage counseling.
2007-06-05 08:37:28 · answer #8 · answered by K. F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mr. USE YOUR HEAD ALREADY, why dont you do just htat, and figure out WHY she's bitchy. Are you not helping out aroudn the house, with the kids, do you not have a job, and/or falling short in some matter? ASK, prepare and brace yourself for the answer, and make a change!
2007-06-05 08:35:51 · answer #9 · answered by it'sjustme79 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Marriage counseling is always a good call to learn how to communicate. You can't change her. If it is part of her nature you live with it or you end the marriage. Some people just don't know how to be happy and their only little slice of it comes off the suffering of the people around them.
2007-06-05 08:39:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a midol.....haha....j/k, that's not funny.....maybe you should find out why she's so bitchy? are doing something to p*ss her off? she obviously hasn't always been this way or else you wouldn't have married her right? and if you did then you're stupid.....try asking her then compromising with her on how to fix it.....communication works wonders in relationships......go ahead....pick up the phone and call her
2007-06-05 08:37:17 · answer #11 · answered by sxyitlngrl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋