I am 31 we have been bff since 6th grade. Don't get me wrong, I love her, it is just we are two totally different people than we use to be. And I cannot STAND her ways. When she calls I make small talk and an excuse to get off of the phone. What should I do?
2007-06-05 07:23:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
its a love hate relationship...I go thru that too..you just have to think...if you truely desperately needed someone..would se be there...Mine would..and that is what counts
2007-06-05 07:26:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg! I have the same problem. i love this girl to death, we have a strong bond, but we have grown in different ways. she still dwells on the past (we both had very difficult childhood) and carries a chip on her shoulder. while i havent by any means forgot the past I am living in the here and now. I have been doing what you are doing for years now. Our conversations are down to about 3 - 4 a year now. Unless she has a crisis, then its more often, but once that crisis has faded its back to normal. We have know each other almost 30 years.
2007-06-05 07:29:48 · answer #2 · answered by just me #1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
same here. sometimes u can not stand ur friends but there is a reason u guys have been bff's since 6th grade..
find things you both like and talk about that...do things like that. =]
2007-06-05 07:27:36 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my bff has been getting on my nerves lately. she completely ignores me and talks about me behing my back. she hangs out with my other really close friend, and doesn't even pay attention to me. we've been bff since 1st grade, and im not 31, im 12. so i don't know what u could do sorry. thank goodness it's summer i couldn't take it anymore.
2007-06-05 07:28:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut her lose...I did. Friends since 8th grade I'm 37 and cut here lose last year. I never could count on her and all she did was complain about her husband and whine because i had a life outside of her. I told her when she grew up to call me. I had finally gotten sick of hearing her.
2007-06-05 07:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by Luvatlanta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you mean, My best friend and I are friends for like 25 years now, but it seems that we both changed a lot but we still hang on to our friendship for old times sake, all you can do is limit seeing her but all the memories you have together are worth it!!
2007-06-05 07:28:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend is awesome. I love her. She is the best thing ever. Tell her that you need some space and that you still want to stay friends but not take it overboard. Well if you call my bf a best friend, put him in that category.
2007-06-05 07:26:18 · answer #7 · answered by DARIA. - JOINED MAY 2006 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not entirely sure what to do about that myself! you could try telling her how you feel, or you could try simply loving her in spite of how you feel... I'm not real clear how to approach that ...... I am a guy and my best friend is a girl, and I have the same problem sometimes...... best guess, I would talk to her
2007-06-05 07:28:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you need some space. You want to say it nice but yet stern so she knows that you mean it. Don't worry everyone gets P.O by there best friends. Its human nature.
2007-06-05 07:27:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I'm TEAM JACOB! All of those words that you just used to describe Jacob apply much better to Edward.
2016-05-17 10:47:28 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys have out grown each other. Time to move on and make a new best friend.
2007-06-05 07:26:49 · answer #11 · answered by macieroads 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋