I have been married for two months already and i have no job and my bills are starting to collect. My wife is getting annoyed that my bills are not getting paid and also that i mite ruin our honeymoon to go to hawaii. I have been trying to find a job but i have been looking around and no one is calling back and she is yelling at me everyday saying did i pay this or that and since we live with my parents i have to ask my mom for money bc my wife is now in debt bc of me. Do you think that getting a job will stop everything or is it to late?
2007-06-05 07:18:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Whatever you need to do to get on your feet, do it!! Of course no one wants to work a dead end job but you must do whatever it takes to show your wife that you are indeed trying. Find something just to bring in a little income until you can do better. You have to look at things from her point of view. She has a right to be annoyed by your lack of financial ability. I mean if you can't cut it while living with relatives, what is the possibility of you all moving into your own place and her having to pay the bills with no help. Grim situation for anyone. The smallest actions are greater than the best intentions.
2007-06-05 07:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by MeMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to hurry and do something quick, or else you will probably end up loosing your wife over this......
It's not that hard to get a job, you can apply on line, everywhere in person and eventually you will find one...Money is money and it's better to have a little then to have none at all, if your picky about jobs then it might help if you stop that, apply everywhere even fast food joints at least you can say your getting a paycheck and that will help bring your debt down as well as your wifes.....
Good luck in job hunting!
2007-06-05 15:15:28 · answer #2 · answered by Kasja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a job, any job and start putting some effort into paying the bills. Anything will help. For your family to see that you are making an effort to pay the bills will help tremendously.
Don't wait for the employers to call you back. Call them first, then call them again. Unless you're in Michigan, you have no excuse for not having a job.
2007-06-05 14:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by St. Brandon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were tooooo young to get married, but now that you ARE married.. it's time to Grow Up and be an Adult.
You have bills to pay, .. get two jobs if you have to and stop mooching off your parents.
Tell the wife to stop yelling because her fault in this is that she signed the marriage license and said "I do" to marrying you although neither one of you was ready to face Adult problems of life.
stop whining and take care of the problem.
2007-06-05 19:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you do don't give up! If you even have to get a job flipping burgers...now it won't be easy, but do what you have to to get the bills paid. It may take you a few paychecks but you will eventually start to make headway. And put yourself and your wife on a budget.
2007-06-05 14:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by Amy L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a Job!
2007-06-05 14:24:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goodness, are you 12? Get a job.....any job....get two if it helps. And you're living with your parents? Why weren't your financial and living arrangements taken care of before you married?
2007-06-05 14:47:56 · answer #7 · answered by dawnb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell the wife to go work the streets and bring daddy home some money.
2007-06-05 14:40:32 · answer #8 · answered by seahorse 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What do you mean too late? Get a job!
2007-06-05 14:37:45 · answer #9 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get off the computer and get a job! Why do people continue to ask dumb questions?
2007-06-05 15:40:07 · answer #10 · answered by mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋