ok my ex n i were together for over a year then he got engaged n because she got raped n is now pregnant he doesnt wanna be with her he wants to be with me...but recently i got over him i wanna get back with him but idk if i should....what should i do??? no nasty comments plz
2007-06-05 06:25:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What a great excuse for him to dump someone. Every time something bad happens to someone he is dating, he will bail on them... Nice...
Put it this way. You are over him and you should be. You were his second choice. Because something happened to his first choice, he wants you back, but that is his issue to deal with.
2007-06-05 06:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by ciberpunk1 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I do not think you should I'm sort of in the same thing. I was married and I divorced him . Was divorced for 4 years and then we got back together . It doesn't work the second time .what Ive been told and have found out is that "It didn't work the first time for one reason or another so don't do it again" If you are over him then keep it that way . You will find that you will end up back in the same situation you was before.
2007-06-05 07:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by littlecowgrl26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's horrible that the girl got raped and became pregnant. I know she's devastated but ur over him and I'm sure yall broke up for a good reason or he wouldn't be your ex. Don't let him have you on the rebound. Talk to him and help him through it but let him know that you've moved on with your life and don't want to turn back.
2007-06-05 06:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think about it what if you two got engaged and u were raped and ended up pregnant he would not stay with you either. Which makes him a sorry excuse for a man what happeend to her was not her fault. Also you need to think about what the reason was you two split up and think hard on that was it b/c he cheated??
2007-06-05 06:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by Sasha R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...did you sit back and read yourself what you wrote?? if you did you' wouldn't even be contemplating on getting back with him.....You and he broke up for a reason..he then gets engaged and now cuz his fiance was raped and is pregnant..going through pure hell and then some..he wants to say to her " cya..and get back with you? " and YOU're contemplating if you should take him back WOW* I think You, Him and Her all need to go to counselling to get some help* You figured you were over him....recently and now you want to get back with him, what should you do? I'm not trying to be nasty, but to give you a reality check* Is this how you want to live your life knowing his fiance was raped and is pregnant and he wants to leave her in the dust to go be with you* What kind of person is he?? not the kind i'd want to get to know or even be near.. How would YOU feel if YOU were the one engaged to him, You got raped and ended up pregnant and your fiance says oh i dont want to be with you now , going to go back to my old g/friend*....what goes around comes around 10fold*
2007-06-05 06:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you break up? you say that you two were together over a year, then he got engaged to a girl who got raped (later)...why'd he dump you for this girl? him leaving her after her rape sounds like he's not marrying material...remember the line in the vows about staying together through good times and bad?
Doesn't sound like someone I'd trust, unless you left out a big chunk of the story.
2007-06-05 06:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i am a little confused here.. your ex boyfriend doesn't want to be with his new girlfriend because she was raped.. why would you even consider going out with this man.. again. What a pig. This girl didn't choose to be raped.. you (and that other girl) don't need him. He should be supporting his new girl.
Do what ever you want but personally i wouldn't date such a shallow man
2007-06-05 06:30:57 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a piece of crap, especially for leaving a woman after she was raped like that. Don't go back to him, you already said you were over him.
2007-06-05 06:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by just a mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just go give his ex-girlfriend a hug, and show your ex the door.
If you are over him, why are you even contemplating getting back with him? You deserve more than leftovers!
2007-06-05 06:30:20 · answer #9 · answered by Karen? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your ex husband I would definitely say no... but if it is an ex boyfriend, I don't see why you can't just go on a date and enjoy your evening by talking as friends... If the sparks start, then bring it one step further... Good Luck
2007-06-05 06:34:38 · answer #10 · answered by Oula 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋