well it is hard but look what he had done all the bad things that you didn't like in mabe in a few months or less mabe u will forget about him just don't think about him at all think about your baby of stuff u may do in the future it works for my older sister
2007-06-05 07:58:40
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answered by Anonymous
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The facts are you already knew about his cheating and abusive ways before married and brought a kid into the picture. By marrying him, you pretty much said "I don't agree with what you do but I'll tolerate it", now your changing your mind because you see he isn't going to change. Great lesson for the next relationship you get into.... In the mean time L-E-A-V-E girl...he doesn't love, respect or honor you....he loves himself and loves making sure his needs are met. You won't be the first woman or last to raise a child without your baby's father. Anytime, a little doubt come in your mind about not leaving, just ask yourself do you want your child learning how to disrespect others or not be faithful to the person he/she loves? RUN, don't walk to the nearest court and file those divorce papers.
2007-06-05 05:41:51
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answered by Lil_MissVal 3
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You move on knowing that there is always better . And that one mans trash is another mans treasure always keeping positive Knowing that there is still life after a long relationship or divorce or failure in your life as long as there is breath in your lungs there is possibility for another chance learn from your past failed relationships and use what you have been taught to start a new beggining . its about being positive and knowing that life doesn't end here learn from life and simply move on . Its the best move you can make for you and your 5 mnth old. i am a single mom and i look back at where i was and i am happy that i was able to stand strong for my daughter and make decisions that were difficult at the time but know i see were all worth the happiness and peace of mind that i have know . Stay strong stay around people that will encourage you to stay strong in your decision if you don't know anyone like that look at your baby hold him tight that will give you the strength you will ever need .
2007-06-05 05:39:35
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answered by Anonymous
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what part of you marriage are you still holding on to. Do you love him when he is abusive? Only a woman with low self esteem and then one who feel loved in an abusive relationship will hang on to an abusive guy.
When you knew this guy was a cheater, why did you not leave him them. Please no woman in her right mind would stick with a cheater. Only a self abusive and self destructive woman would. By leaving him long time ago, you would have avoided having a child with him. I could have said a lot more but you make me sick to my stomach. You have time now, Leave go as far away as you can get from this guy, build a new life for yourself and your child.
2007-06-05 06:11:29
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answered by jimmy.parker06 5
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It seems a little over the top to call your boyfriend a man. He acts more like a little boy. He certainly isn't ready to be a man any day soon. You really need to get yourself and your baby to a safe place and do it soon. Get some help with a counselor if necessary to make sure that you don't keep going back into that abusive environment.
2007-06-05 06:49:02
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answered by dawnb 7
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i been in that situation to and i was with my ex for 8 years but you see it is like this as long as you keep allowing this to go on he will continue to knock you down stand your ground and let him know if he doesnt change then its the end it will be hard but if he loves you he wouldnt abuse you honey and is that the kind of life you want for your baby its not about you now its about that baby you got passed the hard part just walk away and be a mother to your baby good luck he doesnt love you if he chaeted on you and if he abuses you your living a lie hon let him go there are other men in the world who would treat you like there queen dont let him bring you down
2007-06-05 05:40:13
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answered by shyshy 2
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It is hard to believe you love him. I think you might be just scared and insecure about being on your own.
And you cannot expose your child to this kind of family life. As much as I believe if families sticking together and working things out, this one sounds totally unhealthy.
Get over him by getting out and rely on your family and friends for support. Get to a church and find some healty male and female relationships.
2007-06-05 05:38:53
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answered by Wolfithius 4
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2016-10-06 22:08:53
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answered by kelchner 4
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Way too much talk.....not near enough action! You should have left the first time he hit you....and WAY before you got pregnant....what has LOVE got to do with it? If you're going to LOVE somebody, how about LOVING yourself and your son, and getting out of this mess!
2007-06-05 05:55:06
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answered by Anonymous
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Get some self-esteem, and a backbone, and leave the his sorry a**. You deserve better. He deserves whatever he gets.
You also need counceling to learn, how not to be a victim.
Abuse never stops, it just continues and escalates.
2007-06-05 05:49:31
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answered by nwnativeprincess 6
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