im 15 & me & my boyfriend got close to having sex.....?

Question

ok i dont know if TMI but my underwear and his boxers were blocking, he didnt penetrate me. now here's my problem, he said he climaxed but that he moved me before he did. ever since i have been reading books and everything about how to tell if your pregnant like the signs and whatever. but i dont know how to tell for sure. i was gonna buy a pregnancy test once but i didnt have the money. a pregnancy test is out because i have know way to get to one. well i need some info. on how to tell if your pregnant. PLEASE!! i have been scared to death worrying all the time about it and this was atleast 3 or 3 1/2 months ago

P.S. i have not gained any weight and i had my period twice. but my friend told me she had a cousin who got pregnant and didnt even know it until she actually had that baby bc she always had her period on time, she didnt gain any weight at all, she never got sick or morning sickness. but she might have been lying idk this^^^is most of the reason i have been worrying bc what if this happens to me. i told my friend that thats impossible but she kept insisting. so idk.

Answer 1

You should be fine, esp. if this was three months ago. Have you gotten your period? If so....then consider yourself not pregnant.

If you are so worried about becoming pregnant, please be VERY careful when you are with boys. Don't ever let it go past kissing and hugging or you are setting yourself up for a sexual encounter you will regret.....and be paranoid about.

Abstinence is 100% reliable.

Answer 2

Its good that you are asking someone this question. You should ask some more questions at a planned parenthood or a trusted teacher or pastor. Dont believe anyone who tells you that you will miss your period if you are pregnant. This is Not true. Every woman's body is different. You are not pregnant with the other details you say. If you are Scared to death worrying now, you already have felt that you are not ready for what can happen after you have sex. Having a baby is only one. You can get a sexually transmitted disease also. You should know birthcontrol like pills, condoms and others sold are Not 100% protection from getting pregnant or geting sick. It would be embarressing to tell another guy that you cant have sex with them at all because you got a disease, wouldnt it? I know its hard to say No to your boyfriend when it feels so good, but you are worth that. Is having sex with him going to last more than a few minutes anyway? It probaly wont feel as good as you think. It is usually very hard for a girl to have an orgasm, he may not be able to do it for ya. Or think about having a baby now. Does your school have a daycare center to watch her when your in class? No time to do homework or see your friends? Your friends might not want to hang out with you any more. Or they may not be allowed to. Or they are gona be to busy talking about you to care whats happening to you. Do you know that a newborn baby wakes up every 2-3 hours. Man you would be tired! Also you wont know if the next guy you date in the future really likes you, or if they are with you cause they think your Easy. What do you want to do with your life? What are your hopes and dreams? Please think about it. You are on this earth for a purpose. Feel fee to contact me if ya dont have anyone else to talk to, ok. (gems_dreams) I didnt have anyone to talk to and had sex at a very young age. I wish that I didnt!! Take care of yourself!

Answer 3

You are not pregnant. You would have missed a menstural cycle by now if you were. Sweetie, don't put yourself in compromising positions with your boyfriend. Do things together in groups and avoid situations where making out is all there is to do.
Also, read a good book about the female anatomy and how it works. I recommend: Woman's Body, An Owner's Manual. You should be able to check it out at the library.

Knowledge is power. You are a young lady now and you should know about these things so that you can take care of yourself and maintain your body in a healthy manner. Ignorance is anything but bliss. Educate yourself! There is so much you really need to know.

Answer 4

You haven't had a period in 3 - 3 1/2 months? You aren't pregnant, he didn't penetrate you so there is no way you are pregnant but if you haven't had a period in 3 months you need to see a doctor, as there might be something else going on.

Answer 5

have you had your period yet?? here's some info. go to a clinic, they can keep it confidential.

You may be pregnant if you have had sexual intercourse and you have symptoms of pregnancy:

A missed period -- (if your periods are usually regular).

A short, scant period.

Breasts that are sore, tender or swollen.

You feel sick to your stomach, or you are vomiting.

Fatigue -- feeling more tired than usual.

You need to urinate more often than usual.

Mood swings

These symptoms most often don't occur until you have missed your period for about 2 weeks, but this varies from woman to woman, symptoms can occur earlier for some women (sometimes a week after a missed period). I was queasy about a week after conception. (Amy, RN)

Remember, the onset and degree of pregnancy symptoms will vary from woman to woman and from pregnancy to pregnancy. Many women experience them within a week of conception, others take a few weeks.

If you have missed your period, but have not yet taken a pregnancy test, don't assume you're pregnant. Continue to use contraception if you have intercourse and don't want to be pregnant. Remember that the length of your menstrual cycle can vary. There can be major changes in your cycle when you're under a great deal of stress.

Before you proceed to get extremely worried, see if you have any of the signs of pregnancy. Signs of pregnancy usually occur one to two weeks after conception, although the they will vary from woman to woman and pregnancy to pregnancy.

If you have any or all of these symptoms, go right away to your health care provider or family planning clinic and ask for a pregnancy test! If you don't want to go to a clinic yet, buy a home pregnancy test at any pharmacy. (These can be expensive), but this is an important test.

READ the directions carefully before you use it and follow them.

Answer 6

ok... you need to seriously start thinking about where you want you life to go... you are starting to play with fire.

if you can't even afford to buy a pregnancy test, how on earth do you figure you can afford a baby!!!!!

I doubt you're prego if there was no penetration but there is always the possibilty! If you are already going this far it is only a matter of time before you give in to the moment. set guidlines on how far you are willing to go BEFORE you get into the situation or you'll wind up doing something and saying "it just happened" and then you will be PREGO!! be careful...

you are only 15. Enjoy your youth... you should not be worrying about pregnancies and real life things but about fun sleepovers, nails, hair, cute clothes and giggling about boys!

Answer 7

you are not pregnant. if you were or something happened, first of all your period would have been affected (you know, delays, eventually it would stop etc.) and secondly there a no chance for anything to happen, because first of all he didn't penetrate you, and plus you both were wearing under ware! my advice is that if you really want to begin your sexual life, you should either talk to your mom because she can tell you more, if not her then try a doctor or somebody who works in this domain that can give you some good advice. don't rely on other people's experiences because you can never be sure if it will work for you! i hope i answered your question :)

Answer 8

You can get pregnant if any sperm reaches the area of your vagina.

however based on what you describe I do not think it did. However this is a good example on why you need to make well thought out decisions.

If you are going to have sex.. know that you may become pregnant, with protection or without. If you are not ready to raise a child yet please do not have sex yet.

There are a million and one more reasons why not to have sex when you are so young.. however those affect only you and your life.. getting pregnant affects the life of an unborn child - please make right choices.

Answer 9

And I've bet you've said numerous times to yourself that it "wasn't worth it!"...remember that, and that you are in NO WAY ready for the responsibility that comes from having sex, protected or otherwise.
If it's been 3 months and you haven't missed your period, been sick, or anything like that, you're probably OK physically...now get your head right...did you tell your boyfriend, what did he say...is he ready to be a daddy...NO...keep your clothes on, there will be plenty of time to change diapers, contract STDs, get cheated on, have rumors spread about you, etc.

Answer 10

You should be fine, but be more careful next time. Use protection, get on birth control, better yet, abstain from sex all together. Planned Parenthood can really help you out. I was 14 the first time I went there and everything was free (birth control, condoms, and they will even give you a pregnancy test). Check it out.