What do i do my son of 15 years is watching porn and he is an addict to it.i cought him watching just few days bck.What do i do?Tell him with care or beat him belts,shoes,etc. what exactly should i do. i am really very worried.
What would you if your child did that?
2007-06-05 01:34:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
@ 15 years, they wont listen to you anymore! so go ahead and punish him for that and i would spank him, but not too much...
2007-06-05 01:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by leo87 5 · 1⤊ 7⤋
So sorry u can't stop him. My sun had the same addiction but don't worry at least 75% of children (boys) at his age have the same "problem". This is caused because of the hormons especially, but maybe there are some other boys that corrupted him. Dig to find out! Don't hurt him it will make him more interested in porn. Talk to his father and tell him to talk to him, give him another things to fill his time etc. Don't be worried and especially don't let him know that you're worried cause it could get wors. It's normal for a
12 year old boy to watch porn movies... there is no problem for a 15 year old.... if this is making u so worried talk to a shrinck...
Regards =)) x1a1vier
2007-06-05 08:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by s9t9eve 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
hello don't worry this is pretty common so no worries all u have to do is one day call him aside do not spank him or scold him talk to him give him advice tell him that watching porn is whole waste of time tell him how lucky he is to have a computer tall him u use it well and yes give him some warnigns but make it strict warnings tell him abt mind corruption too it helps alot do not beat him at all do not! (: he's 15 give him a chance by talking to him he would understand tell him that studies are more important that porn tell him the danger of porn i'm sure he will listen (: u have a good day and good luck with that take care and things will be fine! its quite common these days so no worries! (:
2007-06-05 10:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by subha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know he is addicted? I ask because this is actually perfectly healthy behavior. Boys at this age are curious. It doesn't mean he's a bad kid, and please don't make him feel that way. I would confront him and say ,"I found your tapes and it's understandable that you may have some questions about this. Do you want to talk?" He'll probably be so embarrassed he'll throw them out himself! Just keep an eye on him, that's our jobs. Don't pre-judge him before you know the whole story. Teens at this age have alot more on their minds than you could conceive. Best of luck! :)
2007-06-05 08:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by jennifer k 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
U gotta be kiddin...right???
I don't know any 15yo kid who hasn't watched porn. When I was 12yo I started watchin porn. When I was 15yo I still watched porn and had plenty of Hustlers and the like. And now I am 18yo and I STILL watch porn...sometimes with my gf.
Your kid is totally and completely normal. U are a lucky mum, u got a natural, normal, healthy kid. Don't sweat it, just tell him to hide it better.
Make sure u tell him all about condoms tho.
2007-06-05 09:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
He is going through that puberty stage, and wants to watch such material. Best thing to do is to take away his TV if he has one in his bedroom, and ground him. ANd you can also ground him. You can tell him with care, but beating him with belts is not the best thing to do, even though some kids are punished that way.
2007-06-05 12:59:59 · answer #6 · answered by Pauly W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It' totally normal that a 15 yr old watch porn. Don't worry.
2007-06-05 13:21:44 · answer #7 · answered by joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a woman you really shouldn't talk to him at all about it. It's none of your business, hon. Find a good man to talk to him.
If you're a man then you should already know how to deal with this. He's your son for Christ's sake. Do what comes naturally.
2007-06-06 07:11:03 · answer #8 · answered by The Lamb of Vista 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
at 15 i don't think there's much you can do, maybe let dad talk to him about whats going on with his body?????
at least he's only watching porn, he could be out doing drugs instead.
2007-06-05 10:12:19 · answer #9 · answered by Durty's Wifey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Normal behavior. Set filters and controls on P.C. and TV to keep under control
2007-06-05 13:10:52 · answer #10 · answered by tk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know he's addicted to porn?
Just because someone glances at porn doesn't mean its an addiction.
2007-06-05 15:11:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋