Is the amount of people asking questions in Singles, teens & pregnancy proof sex ed is **** & teachers usless?

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Is the amount of people asking questions in Singles, teens & pregnancy proof sex ed is **** & teachers usless


Surely if educated in all aspects of realtioships, dating, sex, pregnancy, how you can and cant get pregnant...

you would not get so many comming here and so many getting pregnant as clearly aint been taught right.


Likewise the age indicating it should all be done earlier...


Dutch style.

Ie start age 5, mention gays then, by 13/14 we are talking trips to Ann summers to discuss all the products and the basics were done many years ago.


Oh and telling the parents if they really thought it was their job why don they beat the teachers too it and go into more detail?

How many sex ed programms for example cover real life and whats involved.


ie blowjobs, handjbs, tougue jbs, boob, jobs, what you need to know about anal (ie bad idea, lots of lubricant, go easy, tends to hurt, thicker condoms, more risk etc).

Foreplay, 1st base to home runs,

Kissing, making out, things like after tyaking off condoms wash hands in case sperm on fingers before you carry on making love with (insertion of fingers)

dating...

How to tell if a girl/guy likes you, how to get them to like you, what does thisor that mean etc.

Basically look up the last month on here in teen, pregnancy, sings and dating sections...


If schools and parents did their job surely the kids would not have to ask here

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What idiot trusts a typical parent... they are usless

Answer 1

I work in a secondary school, and it just isn't trendy to pay attention to "sex" education - For example the boys have to look like they "know-it-all" already.

I personally have dispelled some strange myths and using some excellent books like "Let's talk about sex" have discussed masturbation, contraception, stds and what time of day you can have sex. Frank answers to honest questions - but none of these questions were asked in a "classroom / lesson" environment. - It's just not the done thing.....

Answer 2

Well some people do not have the type of relationship with their parents that they could bodly go and ask their parents for advice. I was like that when I was young. I had a mom, but I did not have a mother/daughter relationship. I longed to have a mother like the ones my friends had. I do not agree with what the teens are doing, I dont think they should be sexually active. But the fact of the matter is that they are sexually active, and their parents probably do not know. SO the likelyhood of a teen suspecting that their pregnant will not go to their parents and give a list of their symptoms and ask if they think their pregnant. Many are very scared in fact, so what they do is come on here and determine wether with their symptoms they could be pregnant. The simple answer is.. Did you have sex? Then yes you could be pregnant. But I am sure it goes much further than this. Some of them want an easy answer by someone telling them "YES YOU ARE PREGNANT.... " " NO YOU ARE NOT PREGNANT" it is so much easier for us to tell them... GO ASK YOUR PARENTS, when it is not the help they are seeking. I get so irritated with the questions like "his thing touched my thing, could I be pregnant?" But what frustrates me even more is how we pay school taxes, we expect our children to be given the up most proper education. When in fact our education system is failing in the Sex Ed department. Yes I do believe that Sex ed should be taught in ones home, and talked between child and parents..... but lets face it, parents just do not do this anymore. 90% of the questions are fake and trolls the other 10% are ones that actually need help. So lets just help them so that they can get help and proper physician care. It doesn't help being rude. If someone is rude and harsh to them on here,, then how do you think they will get the courage to go and talk to their parents? We are people they dont even know! If you dont want to answer the questions... THEN DO READ THEM.

Answer 3

Not at all. Understanding any subject requires constant repetition and explanation. Think of how difficult it is to learn, for example, a mathematical process. The problem with learning about sex is that educators and parents are fighting a primal urge. All creatures are "wired" to reproduce because otherwise their species would die out. In humans, because we live so long, our sexual desire comes too early in life to reproduce and care for our young.

If you are really serious about your questions, then continue to help educate young people. Parents are uncomfortable discussing sex with their children, especially the forms of sex you mention. Teachers often get in trouble with parents because of sex education classes. Churches often object completely to premarital sex, so they're no help. Human children don't instinctively know how to protect themselves and their hormones are flowing more strongly than ever in their life. Just when they need sex the most, they're not allowed to have it due to the consequences of pregnancy and disease.

Education takes patience and it's a continuing process. Be patient and join those of us who are trying to educate the public. Nancy Regan's "just say no," isn't enough. We need to keep explaining without criticizing.

Answer 4

The best education encourages the students to seek out more knowledge. No course can possibly cover every aspect of anything.

If anything, the amount of people asking questions here is a big thumbs-up to the sex-ed classes, because they are now comfortable asking about these things.

Answer 5

If young girls get pregnant this government will throw money at them and every time after that.There is no disincentive to getting pregnant.Some even consider it 'cool' to go around showing off their ugly 'bumps' or pushing their little illigitimate bastar*s in brand new prams (buggies) paid for by taxpayers.
If they had to pay for their own children you'd notice a sharp decline in chav pregnancies.
In today's society it is not considered 'cool' to listen to teachers so perhaps a good tactic would be for teachers to suggest getting pregnant ..they might do the opposite.

Answer 6

In Britain they are educated in the ways of claiming benefits and getting to the top of the council flat list.

They don't need to know about trivial things like condoms and how to look after their kids properly, they'll just swear at them and leave them to their own devices.

Answer 7

Yes teachers is to blame but parents more so - they are the ones who should teach them - i hate it if kids want to be grown up and then they do foolish things such as having babies when they are but babies themselves