All went well but then the next day I get an email from him saying that since I never had a boy friend previously,I am not the girl for him.Becoz he feels previous relationships teach you lots.Now how does that work?Just becoz I never had a b/f means I do not value relationships or what?Can anyone explain?Do you think I should be really honest and say that I never had b/f or lie that I had a series of broken relationships?I am confused.Is it bad to be truthful these days?
2007-06-04 20:25:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like a little bit of a dud.
I reckon he's full of BS and you should not waste your time with him.
Move on and find another,
2007-06-04 20:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy? are u isane? Don't you know that their are people out there online waiting to prey on stupid people like yourself! What an idiot!!!! HMMMM...What if this guy was some kind of psychopath or some murderer! You're way lucky that something bad didn't happen to you! Thank the heaven's above that something didn't happen....And get a clue. The 2 of you had never met before....except you chatted on line with each other not knowing what the other person looked like at all! So naturally he finally meets you and being a courteous person he pretends that he had a good time while all the while, thinking what a dog! So in order to rid himself of you, he makes up a lame excuse! So GET A CLUE!!!! and quit meeting people online and get into the real world and meet someone face to face rather than keyboard to keyboard!!!!
2007-06-04 20:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by CLINTON H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because you have basically been relationship for 4 months, he's in all probability protecting his strategies open. He could quite be falling in love with you yet basically isn't confident yet. you may desire to have a communique approximately your relationship and notice the place you stand with one yet another. he won't be cheating yet he would not desire to close the door in this different lady in case it would not artwork out with you. you desire some clean boundary lines. in case you would be at the same time and not seeing people, chatting with different women could desire to be off limits.
2016-11-26 00:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by svendsen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not you with the problem, really. Being truthful is a wonderful quality, don't let people change you! I agree that it was too soon to judge you, but maybe he's insecure, too, and counted on your guidance, who knows? Anyway, don't waste too much time on this, try to move on.
2007-06-04 20:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly he doesn't deserve your time, if he is already making judgements about you that fast! It shouldn't matter what has happened in the past - what should matter is the here and now, and obviously he is something that shouldn't matter. Don't give him another thought, it's a waste of time!
2007-06-04 20:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry sweetie but it sounds like he is making excuses! I think that he isnt interested in dating u and doesnt know how to tell u! I rate that u should tell him off and forget about him! He sounds very immature and he also seems to be a liar!
2007-06-04 20:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by Stacey-Lee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably just wanted one thing and since he thought you didnt have any experience he thought you werent good enough. I think you should just forget about him and find someone better. Its better to be yourself than someone you not.
2007-06-04 20:30:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that I can say here is,
Don't let what other people think or say to you dictate your reality.
(Learn from each experience and decide for yourself how you should be.)
2007-06-04 20:32:11 · answer #8 · answered by Tyson boy's dad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him.and wait for a nice guy who understand u and ur feelings.and don,t loose ur honesty . cauze honesty is the best policy.
2007-06-04 20:43:26 · answer #9 · answered by neelisu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well that was kind of dumb on his part, he should get to know you as a person, and if he can't look past that, he doesn't deserve your time, he shouldn't be judging someone on what they did or didn't do, drop that loser.
2007-06-04 20:32:32 · answer #10 · answered by EbBz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋