we met online, I like this guy he is 51. he seems kind and he is looking for a wife, but am 26, well I think I like him so not bothered by the age but he is foreign and will be visiting our country soon, is he for real or how do I know what he is after?
so if he is serious, how do I make him stick around without going to bed with him?
2007-06-04 20:08:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you dont give enough info so I will assume...is he only coming here to meet you? if so then any guy coming that far would most likely expect something. Also it depends on your actions online with him....if your cybering and talking nasty to him or sending him dirty pics then you would have lead him on to think he will get something....also then theres age hes almost twice your age and like I mentioned hes coming from another country AND older so he may be after one thing.......also theres other things you can do without actually having sex.....
2007-06-04 20:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by lordbling55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is way too old for you. What are you thinking? He is way old enough to be your father. Picture your self in the future. Nice young woman with grandpa for a husband. Look around at older men. When he is 61 you will only be 36. He will be losing his hair, have false teeth, his belly will be over his belt and he will be falling asleep on the couch with his mouth open, while you sit there totally bored wanting to go do something exciting. Wake up! Find some one your own age to grow old with. Don't start out with an old man. He may not even live much longer.
2007-06-04 20:18:00 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he is 51 years old. You are not experienced enough in life to deal with a man that age. Besides, men in some other countries do not treat women with the same kind of respect as they are expected to in our country. These men think that they own a women when they are with them. If he wants you, you had better watch out! Best to stick to guys closer to your own age.
How do I know, you ask. I have been there!!!
2007-06-04 20:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just hope to the high heavens that he loves you enough to wait until you're ready to go to bed with him. However, since he's already "mature", I honestly doubt he will share your idealism so let's just hope there's enough love for him to be tolerant of your delaying tactics.
Oh yeah, since you're angling for marriage, and you're still young, wouldn't you want to be experienced in that first before getting bound forever with him? Seriously, waht if you're not compatible in bed? Are you willing to go through a lifetime of sexual frustration especially when you have yet reached your sexual prime? The love could be there but then happiness is something that you have to work out and being sexually satisfied in a relationship is an important thing. Especially for the men.
2007-06-04 20:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by Trillian 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
something sexual in nature is intercourse... subsequently, cheating. in case you want to divorce her, then do it, dont cheat on her. If she famous out it fairly is going to purely make the topics worse, or deliver approximately her divorcing you. I dont fairly comprehend what to show you how to recognize concerning the entire "rape" element, in spite of each and every little thing, you probably did consent to three form of sexual intercourse, and on an analogous time as you reported initially thaat you probably did no longer want intercourse, did you definitely say "NO" or "provide up" whilst she climbed up on you? See what i'm asserting? lower back on your spouse, although, confer together with her approximately her low sexchronic. There are treatments available to her. in step with risk it fairly is an emotional difficulty for her and that would desire to be the difficulty. you're saying she isn't assembly your desires, in step with risk you arent assembly HER desires. you additionally must the two seek for counseling. If I have been you, although, i could definitly shop my mouth close approximately the different females. you probably did it, you are able to stay with the guilt.
2016-10-06 21:45:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sentence “ how do I make him stick around without going to bed with him?” seems little bit away from love / friend ship. How do you know he is looking his wife in you?… he says/mean so? No other solution but to spend time with him and judge himself.
To make stick around you place yourself more mystic to him…… Good Luck (don’t take risk for know much better)
2007-06-04 20:21:21 · answer #6 · answered by M R L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me No matter what you do don't let someone pressure or force you into something you're uncomfortable with. If you allow them to manipulate you, you WILL regret it and still have to pay the consequences. Put your foot down & stand up for yourself or you'll regret it more and more in the days to come. If he doesn't respect you AND your decisions he is not worth your time. And yes i know from personal experience sooooo please - stand up for yourself you won't regret it! good luck!
2007-06-04 20:15:35 · answer #7 · answered by sunshinegirl802 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't stick around, and indeed if he does not have this standard himself, then he's not worth keeping around.
Your values will weed out those who aren't worth having.
2007-06-04 20:11:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a perv to me. I would not bother with him. Don't waist your time. He only wants one thing from you and it's not a friend. Don't let him win, beat him at his own game and give him nothing.
2007-06-04 20:13:10 · answer #9 · answered by Nicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's too old for u maybe u should meet some one else online ? that might help ?
2007-06-04 20:11:42 · answer #10 · answered by Đαйιэłłє 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋