i been living with my grandma but i feel that since im 18 and im going to college i want the experience of living onmy own and like me nd my boyfriend (since 3rd grade) been looking for apartments. like i want to leave but like should i leave and just visit my grandma everyday or should i stay like..i really just want to leave and then just finish college and once i finish college to move outtah state but like some people think that i should leave and some people tell me i better not leave my grandma but i mean i want to have a life live that grown woman life i dont like depending on people and it feel that im depending on her lke money wise and support wise..but yeah
2007-06-04 19:41:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I believe you should move out..And what better time then when you go off to college...But dont move in with your man....Just dont recommend it...Even if you have been with him since the 3rd grade....Trust me u will have enough just being a freshman in college to deal with all that other stuff....
2007-06-04 20:06:35 · answer #1 · answered by Maria A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can support yourself then whatever. Apartments are expensive and living on your own is difficult. Unless you can balance working for your rent, food, utilities and go to school I wouldn't do it. Living your life can happen later. There's no rush in moving out and being stressed Being a grown woman is handling your responsibilities and knowing when to take a helping hand. Take the opportunity now to enjoy this luxury your grandma's giving you. Your grandma is willing to help her out and if you're depending on her money to live how will you survive without her? Use this time in your grandma's home to work and save up money.
2007-06-05 02:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like I do not know the whole situation well enough to give you a sure answer, but I think you should go. You'll have to leave sooner or later, better it be while you are going to college. I don't recommend living with your boyfriend, but that's another matter.
2007-06-05 02:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by wizball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 18 it is time to move out on your own. But don't move in with your bf. You should be married to a man before you move in with him or are intimate with him.
2007-06-05 02:58:15 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's better to stay with your grandma.. for she has only few time to live.. it's better to be with her and try to give her special attention.. at least after all.. you've made her life so meaningful to her.. and being independent can wait for right time.. but i still respect your decision.. i know it is still up to you to decide no matter what! so i hope you've made the right one! goodluck!
2007-06-05 03:04:34 · answer #5 · answered by yeekatoox ™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to leave.. leave.
You can always visit her, leaving doesn't mean you have to break up all contact.
It's time for you to live your life.
2007-06-05 03:02:05 · answer #6 · answered by sweetera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋