My Cousin Is getting married tomorrow night but she's not ready she wants to tell him what can she say?

Question

My cousin is getting married tomorrow night but she is not ready to get married early for there relationship what can she say without breakin his heart?

Answer 1

In this last minute time of course he will be broken hearted..It's unavoidable..

Truth is always the best.Tell him honestly what she's feeling.

when they get married will not matter if they are fated to be together.

Good Luck!

Answer 2

Divorces are more expensive to file that marriage licenses so if she's not sure then she needs to talk to him now. Like right now or first thing in the morning. There no reason why they can't announce that they've decided to wait to actually do the nuptials (or better yet not announce and just go through the motions) and still have the big party. If she's worried about embarrassing him, maybe see if they can do a mock wedding where no one really knows it's fake and just ask the officiating person not to sign the marriage certificate yet. Then they can go do the real thing later by themselves. No one has to know and he won't be embarrassed by being left at the alter. It doesn't sound like she wants to scrap the guy all together she's just not ready right? So, either scrap it all, fake it, or get on with it. I'd suggest faking it if she's really not sure but there's alot of money invested, guests and gifts. Then if they split up later there's not legal ties to cut they just announce their separating.

Answer 3

It is mh easier to postpone a marriage than to divorce later. Tell her to tell her fiance that she wants to postpone, not call off, the wedding until she is ready. If he loves her, he will wait. My cousin did the same thing, he thought he was doing the right thing by keeping his mouth shut and marrying, and they were divorced within one year. He still has feelings for her, but won´t marry her again because they both cannot get over the hurt.

Answer 4

She should tell him the truth. Marriage is permanent, until death do us part. So she shouldn't do it until she is sure she is ready. That is the only fair thing to do for the both of them. Can't start a marriage out on a lie.

Answer 5

well if she really wants out i think shes left it a bit long. If she really didnt want to get married i am sure she would have acted a bit sooner than the day before the wedding.

So who says she is not ready??? You or her?

Answer 6

she needs to be honset for everyone involved. She does want to be in a unhappy marriage bacause she didn't feel ready and couldn't be honest. Just encourage her to be honest about how she is feeling and let her know that in the long run it will all work out for the better...I promise.

Answer 7

while on your heart you understand this is the properly suited time. however the faster you could recover from your failed marriage and pass on the greater helpful. It sounds like it is going to be no situation moving on exceptionally immediately however. you do unlike your quickly to be ex husband and already have your heart set on somebody else. do no longer permit mr surprising wreck out because of the fact mr incorrect continues to be in rear view mirror. supply up finding in the mirror and seem forward. the quicker the greater helpful

Answer 8

Who says she's not ready? You or your cousin? Or is she just scared(but really in love?)


If she is not genuinely ready, then delay the wedding, and extend the courtship until it all washes out.

Answer 9

The old "it's not you, it's me" seems the right thing to say.

Of course it's good to add that it's her that never should have accepted the proposal in the first place.

Answer 10

Can't She Say?
Hey! The relation is going to be the best relation on earth, she should go and share that with him and of course she should ask the same question to him (would to be hubby), because she is going to share all for lifetime with him….