I have a gf and I love her dearly but I can't seem to find out if I am Gay, Bi, or just plain Confused. Because I know I'm not straight. But the only problem is that I can't seem to figure out if I am gay or bi. I am so confused. I am steering towards other guys more but i love my gf and i don't want to lose her. Can someone plz help me?
2007-06-04 19:33:27 · 11 answers · asked by izzumn54 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey iz you are confused, ok if you truly love this girl then you know what you got to do be honest come clean she might get buzzed out but she'll accept your honesty, but anyways ( honey you bi )
2007-06-04 19:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by Gigglez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Homosexuality is a sin. It is also a choice not something you are born with. Read your bible if you doubt what I say. The book of Romans has a lot on it. God hates homosexuality. You are treading on dangerous ground. You should deny any of those feelings for other men, it is not love, it can only be lust. You will only be on this earth a short time. You will be in eternity forever. Where will you spend yours? Burning in hell for some evil pleasures here that don't last? Or with God in the good place?
Homosexuality is not worth the penalty. You have free will to sin, but you cannot decide the consequences for your sin.
Get yourself a New Living translation of the Holy Bible it is written in plain modern English and find out for yourself what it says.
2007-06-05 02:41:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends on how you are attracted to men. if you see a relationship or a future with a man, then id go closer to gay than bi. if you only have a sexual attraction and you have not been with a man, it could be just curiosity. if you have had sex with a man and only like that and not a relationship, id say bi. good luck on finding yourself!!
2007-06-05 02:38:44 · answer #3 · answered by amanda c 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, you seem at least bisexual :) Do you really love your girlfriend in THAT way, though? Or are you just afraid of breaking her heart, etc? It seems like you have some experimenting to do. Try a guy and see if you miss being with a woman.
2007-06-05 02:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by January 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well sweetie you just anserwed your self,your bi you love your girlfriend but your interested in guys,i dont think that there has ever been a guy who hasnt thought about this paticular situtation at least once in his life.if you feel lke you might be bi then i would try somthing like sexaul intercorse with a guy or scince you want to keep ur girl i would try flirting with another guy to see how it feels for you,you'll no then
2007-06-05 02:40:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think your..bi. You seem to love your GIRL, but like GUYS. Nothing wrong with that. If you want to stay with her don't worry avout it, If your not sure about staying with her, look into more. If you break-up try dating a guy. If ya like it your bi, if not your straight..^^
2007-06-05 02:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
think about it like this. if you want to engage in sexual acts with men it might be a fetish thing for you. if you want to have relationships with men (like dating them and marriage, boyfriends etc) then you might be gay/bi. either way just be proud to be who you are good luck!
2007-06-05 02:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love whoever you have a connection with and stop being so worried about the labels.
2007-06-05 02:36:51 · answer #8 · answered by LoveisfirE 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
gay-u love her like a friend not a girlfriend
2007-06-05 02:43:22 · answer #9 · answered by sweet angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think if she still gives you a hard on your bi
2007-06-05 02:35:58 · answer #10 · answered by Whole 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋