I am in love with the best boy in the world. I am turning 16 and we have been together for a year and 5 months. I really truly love him. My father has never been there to support me all my life and I live with my mom. All of a sudden he is coming into my life and telling my mom that he doesn't like my boyfriend and to force me to break up with him. What do I do. I want to be with him forever. I truly love him. What do I do. If him and I are not together I may not want to be here anymore! Someone please help me and tell me what to do about this. My heart is broken. It reminds me of the movie "The Notebook".
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2007-06-04 19:12:50 · 6 answers · asked by BEAUTiFUL CAiTLYN 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I talked to my mom about it also and she and my dad have been seperated for 11 years. That's why I feel like he has no right to tell me what to do since he has never been in my life. Thanks you guys for the answers. I really am in love with him. He lives 3 hours away and it's a long distance relationship that has been going on for a year and a half. ITS TRUE LOVE! <3
2007-06-04 19:24:12 · update #1
I'm sorry your going through so much pain right now. I would just be patient and wait for things to fall into place. I know it doesn't seem this way right now but your daddy thinks he's doing what he can to protect his little girl. If you think about it, how can he really break you guys up? You say you love him and he loves you. Well that's your feelings (mental). Your dad can't break up emotions or your guys feelings. That's why I say be patient. You guys are still together no matter what. Love is more mental than physical.
2007-06-04 19:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by Nicki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your trying to replace the lost attention that you might have never had with your father...with a boy. Because your father has not been there in the past, believe me, those protective bells are ringing VERY loud in his head(as they should be), and he is protecting you.
Of COURSE you need to be loved, and cared for, but at 15/16, I hate to say this, but you are dillusional that this is "forever".
Men can see things in men/boys that mothers/girls cannot see(and the reverse is also true). Does your boyfriend avoid your father? Has your boyfriend made any effort to get to know your dad? If your mother condones this relationship, than I seriously question her judgement as a parent.
Parents are generally much better judges of character than children, and so what if your dad forces a break-up. A real man will wait FOREVER for you without hesitation, or swin the ocean for YOU. If he bolts when the heat is turned up, then you have your answer, don't you?
Good Luck!
2007-06-05 02:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mother that you feel that he is being unfair to you. He has not taken an interest in your life before, why should he now? By the way, how does your mother feel about this guy? She may be the one that enlisted your dad to put his foot down.
2007-06-05 02:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
do what your heart tell you that someing you do not ask other people i know it hard right now but if you follow your heart
the best up come will happen
good luck to
"i think if you really love him keep going out "
2007-06-05 02:21:06 · answer #4 · answered by oldindo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your dad that you really love him and if he doesnt fall for that heres what you do, bring it up, then when he says what ever he says start screaming at him and crying and all this emotional stuff, trust me dads can't handle that. unless your family is strict, then if your boyfriend goes to your school then you can see him there, and if you can drive you can say your going to the mall and meet up with him.
2007-06-05 02:19:54 · answer #5 · answered by Rae 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
tell your dad to go F$%# him self he dose not talk to you or your mom your hole life then he pops in and wants to be super dad that is bull stay with your boyfrend
2007-06-05 02:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by davidpb 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋