I am getting married on Sunday...and I still have so much to do!!
But for some reason...I'm not really stressed at all, and this is so strange seeing as how I have anxiety problems and I am definatley a worry wort. Can something be the matter?
2007-06-04 18:58:20 · 17 answers · asked by Mrs. CT 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
That's called meta-anxiety... Having anxiety about not having anxiety. Nothing is wrong. I promise you'll be fine.
2007-06-05 05:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by justagirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it...I wasnt nervous either like most brides are. nothing was going right the day before the wedding and I still wasnt owrried because deep down I knew none of it really matters. what matters is me and the man I love. be thankful your not stressed out and worried. there is no reason to be. enjoy it because you have a big day coming up...so relax while you can cuz that day will be hectic
2007-06-04 19:24:43 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn ♥Cadence Jade's mum♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was never nervous about my wedding. Even when I had to move the entire wedding 26 days before it happened I wasn't nervous. I was just excited to get married. I knew he was the man of my dreams and the only 1 on the planet for me so I was not stressed at all.
Enjoy your wedding day!
2007-06-04 19:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by hotelmajor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way...be grateful. Many brides turn into the most calm, cool, collected women they've ever been right before their weddings...its a sign that although there is stress and nerves, they know what they're doing and determined to go through with it. Good luck and have a great wedding!
2007-06-05 08:18:04 · answer #4 · answered by its about time 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many brides lose it on the wedding day.... I did. My aunt asked me, if I needed help with my hair. Instead of saying no thank you- I yelled and said something very rude to her.... that was so not me at all. Before that I was crying when something went wrong.... (at my makeup appointment... the lady who was supposed to do my makeup didn't put me on her list... she wasn't there and we had to wait for her for almost an hour)... all that was a few hours prior to the wedding. The day before, I was very calm.... I didn't expect my wedding day to start like that at all.
I had a friend who was very calm until before her reception started... she had a nervous breakdown... couldn't stop crying.
I suggest that you take it easy and make sure you sleep well the nights prior to the wedding. Take a sleep aid, if necessary....
2007-06-04 19:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats! No, nothing's wrong, just the opposite!!! I was like this as well, just totally comfortable with everything and really ready for the marriage, not just the wedding day. That's not saying you might not have a bit of nervousness on wedding morning, but that's totally normal. Sounds like you are just mature, and ready for everything! Good luck to you!
2007-06-05 04:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wasnt stressed for mine at all. You might wake up that morning and freak out but thats normal too. Count you lucky stars that you ARNT stressed and driving yourself and everyone else nuts
2007-06-04 19:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by Miranda's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy you are not nervous. You have obviously found the man of your dreams and you know everything is going to work out wonderfully. Go with it and congrats!
2007-06-05 05:23:41 · answer #8 · answered by Kristy Lynn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope that is perfectly normal! I'm getting married on the 29th and I CANNOT WAIT!! Congrats to you!
2007-06-04 19:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I wasn't nervous for mine either. i was more sure about my marriage than what colleges i chose to get my degrees from.
that just means you know what you want, and you are making it happen. congrats!
2007-06-05 04:19:35 · answer #10 · answered by Best 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋