2007-06-04 13:09:15 · 42 answers · asked by ? 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Never be mean to her, always treat her like she's the most important person in your life, stand up for her honor and make sure you give her sex in the morning and before bed at night.
2007-06-04 14:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by jade j 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Don't let the two meet!
Seriously though I know how to keep mine happy. It started when she was my girlfriend and continues now that we are married.
Be the man. You do not have to lord it over her, but if she can trust in your strength, honor, and Love she will be happy. Others have given other good ideas. Listen to her, care for her. Acknowledge her good works. Do little things to help around the house. Talk to her. Surprise her now and again. Even a mistake done out of love will be better than a shallow attempt at making her happy.
Women are creatures of emotion. Do not be distressed greatly when they are not happy. Give her a hanky or a shoulder to cry on or listen or run for your life. But, be careful you are a fixer by nature. Women do not want situations to be fixed all the time.
2007-06-04 13:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by crimthann69 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Learn to put the toilet seat down. Seriously, "Cosmo" did a survey, years back, and freakin' *87%* of women said that was their #1 pet peeve with men. I remember reading that at the time and thinking, "You mean it's THAT easy?"
2. Learn to listen to what sounds like complaining without feeling the urge to solve the problem. We men are "fixers" by nature, and only mention a problem if we want advice fixing it. Women just wanna vent . . . all they really need to know is that you CARE. So learn to fake that . . . *G*
3. Stop ogling other women while you're with them, and leave other women out of stories from your past entirely. When on a date, as soon as a hottie appears at the edge of your peripheral vision, make immediate eye contact with your GF and ask her about her shoes. Pretend to listen with great interest, maintaining eye contact, until the danger has passed. They'll love you for it.
This isn't the proper venue for discussions about foreplay, so I'll leave that to your GF or wife. Suffice to say, if you ask a woman to give you clear directions . . . you'll be amazed what you'll learn.
2007-06-04 13:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by Boar's Heart 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ultimately, what make a *good* woman happy is knowing that she is loved and validated for herself - everything that you would give her or do for her, in the relationship, is essentially a sign of that love and validation.
I say a *good* woman here, because an evil woman only looks upon her man as a source of what she wants to get in life, as *getting* is her only goal - if he can provide what she wants, fine, if not, it is out the door with him - love itself is not a factor (although there can be emotional attachment, it does not involve love of the other for the other's sake - such attachment is *entirely* selfish).
Two types of male/female relationships exist.
With the good type, the relationship is based upon love, which is the valuing of the other person for the other person's sake.
With the bad type, the relationship is merely a barter arrangement in which the parties agree that the other is beneficial to the self - even sexual activity is treated in this way, as the other party is seen merely as a means for one's satisfaction, whereas with the good type, sex is seen as a means of union with the beloved, with the other's fulfilment in the act considered as important as one's own.
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2007-06-04 13:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember one word SLOW
You start foreplay in the morning, make love at night...
You have to tell her she's beautiful and well-loved and that her happiness is all important. She will be very grateful in the bedroom! Sometimes an easy love is better than an impressive love...i.e. a man who just loves you unconditionally (not smothers) is a shoe-in, whereas a man who is impressive yet doesn't give you the wealth of love you need, grows tiresome. But you have to be somewhat impressive as a partner, or she'll lose interest.
2007-06-04 13:14:40 · answer #5 · answered by BS,MS,Ph.D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love her, care for her. Make her feel special and like she is the most beautiful woman in the world.
Find out what her love languages are. If her love language is gifts, then she has probably shown that by buying others gifts for no occasion and such. So, when you run to Walmart to get milk, pick her up a little something...doesn't even matter what it is.
My love language is gifts and when my husband goes to walmart to get groceries, he'll come back with chapstick or a three musketeers and it makes my day!
Check out the Five Love Languages. I think it is written by Gary Chapman. It's a great book;
Gifts, Acts of Service, Quality Time, Physical Touch, Words of Affirmation.
Never embarrass her, in private or public.
2007-06-04 13:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by steffers27 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Communicate
2007-06-04 13:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by Shawn B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Show her love every day and do not forget.
Women want to feel love more than anything, men want respect.
A flower, a card, look into her eyes and say I love you every day.
Love is unselfish. If you remember that you will be blessed.
And remember to do many of these things, they are are considered foreplay when we watch YOU do it:
Vacuuming
Dusting
Laundry
shopping
cooking-all of these things turn women on.
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2007-06-04 13:24:27 · answer #8 · answered by Jeanmarie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, i would say I'd lose my account too, but hey, its general advice, so here it goes.
Be spontaneous! Bring her small gifts every now and then.
Be a gentleman. Open doors and such.
Call her just to say Hi & I Love You.
Ask her about what SHE loves, talk about her.
Brag about her to your friends.
Most of all, spend time w/ her, tell her how happy YOU are to be with her.
Tell her she's beautiful, gorgeous, whatever word pops in your head!
2007-06-04 13:16:22 · answer #9 · answered by ilove_california3 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Give her some responsibility so she has a feeling of accomplishment and then compliment her but do not let her get too stressed with worry over traditional men responsibilities. In other words shield her a little bit, but make her feel invaluable. She is to be your helpmate not your servant. Treat her and love her as Jesus loves his bride the Church. Die for her if you have to. Make sure she does not get too much ahead of herself with the relationship,. I mean sometimes a little argument is good to clear the air.
2007-06-04 13:25:25 · answer #10 · answered by Midge 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Love her. Build her up. Help her obtain her goals. Be a partner and a lover, and somone that she is thankful to God to have. If you can do this, and it is no small thing, she will think to herself; "I would be a fool to NOT be here".
You cannot make a woman love you, but you can make it possible, and easy for her to do so. It helps to be someone who is easy to love.
2007-06-04 13:15:50 · answer #11 · answered by great gig in the sky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋