I'm not!!
I've had been on the honor roll for seven years (but this year, do to some problems I have, to get a 4.0 GPA).I'm in a lot of good actives and a lot of people know me. I know a little Spanish and a little of Japanese as well. My old crush, Taylor had got beaten up not to long ago over some girl. And he always has put me down all the time, make me feel small. He was a loser from the beginning and I should have seen it.
All my crushes ARE LOSERS, I don't want to end up like my grand mama, it had happen to her the same way as well.
Plus, my old crushes have friends like them and they keep thinking I'm stupid or weird, for the reason that I'm different from the other girls in my school.
How can I find some one who treats me right, like a best friend and turn into to my boyfriend someday?
Because, most of my guy friends are very nasty, bi, and gay and some a step above my old crushes.
Please say (nice Things) Thanks
2007-06-04 12:38:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
My old crushes were
15 years old
18 years old
14 years old
15, years old
2007-06-04 12:50:20 · update #1
Three of them like around me and one lives in the city, (the 18 year old).
2007-06-04 12:54:18 · update #2
If all your old crushes are losers, then why do you care what they think? Just take yer time, you seem to be really young. You'll find what your looking for..
2007-06-04 12:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears that you are smarter than they are, possiably older than they are, and all around a better person than they are with a more fofilled life.
These guys may not look like losers when you start crushing on them, but they seem to turn into them when the realize all of the things that I have said above that are great about you. They are threatened by how cool you really are and how hard you are ready to work to get what you want.
I know that this is one of those things that no girl is supposed to say, but I've gotta say it. There is almost no way that you can find a guy that will be your best friend then turn into your boyfriend. (eek! I'm sorry, it's terriable but true) It sounds like your guy friends aren't really desirable to be boyfriends, so what I can say to do is make a list of everything that you really want in a guy and remember it. The guy who will treat you great, be a great friend (after the relationship starts), and support (like/love even) you through the good and bad may not look the way that you wanted/thought he should.
2007-06-09 16:35:21 · answer #2 · answered by duchess_curry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you would give one second's thought to worrying about what your ex's and their friends think is exactly why you keep ending up with losers who are big jerks! You shouldn't care what they think. They are losers! If you keep reaching down and picking up doo-doo, it's time to move on to a different patch of grass! Change your scenery. You're a smart girl. Hang out with other smart people. You'll certainly end up meeting someone nice and the chances of them being a loser is a lot less. Let your ex's and the losers they hang around with find each other and make like miserable for each other into the sunset. YOU are taking a different path. But only if you really want to.
2016-05-21 06:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by kimberlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're old crushes are stupid. They spreaded some rumors to their other dumb friends and now they think you're stupid. Don't even think about them. They're just jerks that want to upset you and you should turn against them and say Look who's talking!!! You should be proud of yourself and those losers don't know anything about you whatsoever! Didn't their moms ever tell them whatever you say is what you are and that is a FACT!!! You go girl!
2007-06-04 12:50:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! Dating is a learning phase and you are able to recognize what you DON'T want. That is the first step.
If you have specific hobbies or interests, try joining a club that does these activities. The people will be interested in what they are doing and positive.
2007-06-04 13:56:08 · answer #5 · answered by Pacifica 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it happen.... dont necessarily go out looking for him... when we are looking constantly we fall into the trap of becoming delusional becuase we have been searching for so long! that way you might get into a nasty relationship... i was the same as you i was out looking and i had the worst time, because in the end i would almost settle for whoever i thought to be at least half decent... then i dicieded to just relax..."if it happens it happens" and it did! i found the man of my dreams and i havent looked back.... good luck and dont settle for second best you deserve all the goodness in the world!
2007-06-04 12:45:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They obviously don't understand you and do not have respect for those who are individuals.It is easier for some to be followers, than to stand up in a crowd and be accountable for themselves and what they represent. You also give people an idea of how to treat you by how you treat yourself. Don't settle for a friend that doesn't to some degree share your values.
2007-06-04 13:49:00 · answer #7 · answered by littltefunbox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry to much about a boy friend. Just be a friend and find out how they are before you go to the next level. Go out as friends and the rest will come natural.
2007-06-04 12:43:18 · answer #8 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did not read allllllll of that so ill just say dont do it your to young, go 4 soccer baseball sucks, keep it real do every thing you said but at the same time dont :]
2007-06-09 21:09:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you answered your own question they are losers. you need to up your standards.
2007-06-04 13:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by whateva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋