I am a lesbian in love with a straight girl for 2 years. We are basically best friends at this point. She says she has no feelings for me. I guess I cant believe that. I was drinking the other night and tried to kiss her. I ended up just pecking her lips and said"and you wont?" And she said no and I asked why and she said becsause. So I guess I dont understand. She didnt run away so....? And I love her like mad crazy. So does any straight women have any answers for me?
2007-06-04 10:59:21 · 11 answers · asked by fran0512 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, straight women won't fall in love with lesbians. I've seen straight girls ACT like lesbians (they think it's funny, but it's totally gross and immature). Maybe she thought you were just acting when in fact you were totally serious. Anyway, good luck with that. I think you'd be better off spending your energy on openly gay women. Good night!
2007-06-04 11:08:27 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, a straight women can't be inlove with a lesbian, because then she would also be a lesbian. I think she may not of run away because you two are supposedly best friends. It is best if you don't try hitting on her. That would just ruin your friendship and push her away. Sorry.
2007-06-04 11:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by Lizzy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this is a toughie.
if she comfortable with her sexuality (and it sounds like she is) i'm sorry to say, but nothing you can do will make her change her mind. she was probably really drunk, didn't know what to do and was really surprised that you kissed her. has she said anything to you after the incident? if no, you have your answer.
2007-06-04 11:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by thebodyelectric! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whew, are you kidding me. had this same scenario happen to me, kinda. I was in love with a lesbian who was in love with a straight girl. I got tired of chasing my tail.
2007-06-05 02:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by Rainonme 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honey she's just not into girls that's all, she values your friendship, if she didn't kiss you back then that means she's not interested and i don't think its personal she's just straight as a board that's all...good luck!!
2007-06-04 11:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well im straight, but i think girls are attractive and i would kiss one but i wouldn't want to have sex with one. so she might be like me. don't ruin your friendship.
2007-06-04 11:03:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
, Shes just being nice. If you keep pushing your going to lose your friendship and push her away....
2007-06-04 11:03:21 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. November 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your friend may have thoughts going thru her mind,but is scared to actually do something.Don't chase her away.just sit back and wait on a certain look then try it again.
2007-06-04 11:04:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
hey im dead straight and yea, the answer is YES.
coz if you're attractive physiCALLY, he's a guy...and ...yeah!
so, YES!
and if you mean, in terms of personality, i'd say yeah, y not...except for the fact maybe that you like girls.
2007-06-04 11:03:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
dude she dont like you, just move on wif life.
2007-06-04 11:02:27 · answer #10 · answered by vanessa 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋