I have been casually seeing a guy for about 6 months now, and lately he is giving me mixed signals. I have tried to talk to him about what is going on, but he refuses to communicate with me or give me a straight answer about anything and simply says he needs to get to know me better before he is ready to move forward, doesn't want to be pressured, blah, blah, blah. The most recent pattern seems to be that he will spend an entire day with me, then contact me on more than one occasion the following day, and then I won't hear from him for a few days. Then it starts all over again. I will not chase him, but I do have feelings for the guy. Do I get out now or do I come up with a new game to play?
2007-06-04 08:33:26 · 3 answers · asked by elaine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
New game that works if you play it right. Reverse tactics. Get busy doing something else, don't call him, don't ask around for him, don't be mean just distant and unconcerned. He will come around to find out why you are not insecure anymore. He will become the insecure one. He is too secure about you right now, he believes he has you under his thumb. You can change that if you can hold out while being aloof.
2007-06-04 08:40:01 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what he is thinking about you people. Tell him to be more punctual in his relationships.
2007-06-04 15:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by Goldman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know wut to say cuz i have the same case
2007-06-04 15:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by joselyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋